babycupid, yeah.. some mothers can't latch on properly. some mothers find their supply dropping when they return to work. try not to give yourself too much pressure. just take it as it comes. despite the well known differences betweeen formula milk and breastmilk, there are no conclusive studies on the long term effects of feeding breastmilk. it's not proven superior than formula milk. I'll be surprised if there are studies on this - so far can't find. From my personal experience, most of my cousins except 3 were fed on formula milk. I was also a formula milk bb. But those cousins who were breast fed (in their early 20s now) are not in better health (still have allergies) and are not average in school (2 of them N levels.. the 3rd at least made it to NTU business studies). compare that with 3 other cousins on formula milk.. very close to their parents still.. PSLE over 275 type, 1 of them PSC scholar. In terms of bonding, allergies, IQ, there doesn't seem to be a corelation loh...
so don't give ourselves too much pressure where breast feeding is concerned. of course, if we believe that breast feeding si good (like me!!), try it out. but dont kill ourselves if we can't perserve. no one is going to judge us. eventually, our child's well being is much more than just feeding breast milk. and if we are sad or feel inferior, our bb/child will sense this too.. it's not good for them.