oops.. few days din login.. gotta roll up up up up.. think i sure miss some posts..
Aria jo,
Naia is so lovely.. beautiful pics..
chersam,
hi hi
it's very close only 1 day apart.. btw, where did you give birth to her? who knows they ever sleep next to each other.. hee.. i gave birth at tmc..
Tks, i love the pic, he looks handsome in the suit.. heeee..
Maruko,
tks.. and yes, i have to go to the archives everytime i login.. a very active and live thread indeed
rock rock oct2007 mummies&babies
re: throwing tantrum
luckything Anthony will listen to his daddy most of the time when we're outside,
but yes, my hubby also thinks it's easy to discipline whenever he wants.
everytime i'm disciplining anthony, he will interfere & complain with my way of disciplining him..
anthony's a big boy now, he knows when i tell him to stop crying for something, sometimes he will only be crying for fun (hope u know what i mean, those fake cry type, huu huu huu).. if hubby's not at home, i tell him to stop crying else i don't care and will walk away, he will surely stop crying later on.. but if hubby's at home, he'll continue to cry, be it a real cry or a fake cry.. end up he's mad at me accuse me for not being able to stop his crying and claim that have to distract him.. hey, he's not a baby anymore that need to be distracted to stop his cry.. i've tried to disctract him la, he'll cry louder if we try to comfort him..
OH, Esp when it comes to sleep time.
1. i was trying hard to get anthony to sleep but then he came ruin everything.. i'm training him to sleep by himself in the cot, but when hubby gets home early, anthony won't even sleep early..
2. when anthony wakes up in the middle of the nite, i will usually pat pat him to go back to sleep or just let him cry for awhile then he will get back to sleep (this happenned couple time when daddy's not around / oversea).. but if my hubby is around, he won't stop crying until being carried.. bad habit!! hubby claim that we must carry him out to make him go back to sleep.. i really hate this!! ok, it's him who's bz carrying anthony and stay by the window watching outside.. but it's not good for my boy.. how can he ever learn to get back to sleep on his own??
arrghh.. now i'm the one who rant
other thing, hubby dun like it when i walk away on anthony whenever he throw tantrum, but hubby can walk away to let anthony following him when outside, o pls, even 20yod won't always listen when you tell him to follow you... he expects 2yod will follow him walking.. my boy almost went into one store.. 2yod get distracted easily mah.. and hubby will still walk without check on him closely, can u imagine that my boy's ever left 2 metres apart in the almost crowd place (ion).. and then suddenly fell down.. i think he must be shocked.. fortunately i saw him in time.. was hurrying back from the rest room.. i usually never hurry back.. got instict perhaps?