hello mummies...
today topic is #2 ar... hehehe.. can i still comment????
assume im not preggy lah hor, by "right".. i do intend to have #2 but probably only start TTC when A hits 1yrs old, i.e. he will be approx 2yrs old when #2 actually arrives.. can walk n run liaoz, no need to always carry.. n also more independent in e sense, feeding, bathing all these will be alot easier than now.
btw, im hitting e big 3-0 tis year... so early 30s to me, stil ok to hv babies.. now medical advancement, i think up late 30s stil can "an xing" have babies.. prob up to 40 then need to seriously weigh e risk n cons involved.
but since i "kena accident"... wat i can share is wat i go through right now. im lucky to hv my mum taking care of A.. she's early 50s, stil can help me take care of both my kids. BUT realistically speaking, taking care of a 1yr old + a newborn is too tough on her alone, so tats why i will hire a maid to help her out. if it had been my ideal scenario (i.e. 2yrs old + newborn), then she also would not want a maid...
in e beginning, i keep feeling very sad n guilty towards A, cos i know i wont hv energy for him.. now already start tis problem as i cant carry him for long period of time.. but other than that, luckily i can stil do almost everything else for now... altho i dont know how long more i can carry on lor...
e plus point would be e 2 of them wld be very very close in age gap.. n i "suffer" (since now already "used to" e tiredness n lack of sleep) 1-shot.. rather than "relax" liaoz.. then another few years later then go through e whole process of pregnancy n taking care of newborn all over again...
today topic is #2 ar... hehehe.. can i still comment????
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assume im not preggy lah hor, by "right".. i do intend to have #2 but probably only start TTC when A hits 1yrs old, i.e. he will be approx 2yrs old when #2 actually arrives.. can walk n run liaoz, no need to always carry.. n also more independent in e sense, feeding, bathing all these will be alot easier than now.
btw, im hitting e big 3-0 tis year... so early 30s to me, stil ok to hv babies.. now medical advancement, i think up late 30s stil can "an xing" have babies.. prob up to 40 then need to seriously weigh e risk n cons involved.
but since i "kena accident"... wat i can share is wat i go through right now. im lucky to hv my mum taking care of A.. she's early 50s, stil can help me take care of both my kids. BUT realistically speaking, taking care of a 1yr old + a newborn is too tough on her alone, so tats why i will hire a maid to help her out. if it had been my ideal scenario (i.e. 2yrs old + newborn), then she also would not want a maid...
in e beginning, i keep feeling very sad n guilty towards A, cos i know i wont hv energy for him.. now already start tis problem as i cant carry him for long period of time.. but other than that, luckily i can stil do almost everything else for now... altho i dont know how long more i can carry on lor...
e plus point would be e 2 of them wld be very very close in age gap.. n i "suffer" (since now already "used to" e tiredness n lack of sleep) 1-shot.. rather than "relax" liaoz.. then another few years later then go through e whole process of pregnancy n taking care of newborn all over again...