Dear Puff,
I understand the frustration and impress on you, that you didnt give in them. My gal was big size yet, i still feed her our food(tiny bits to begin with) coz i do hear many comment of 'thats Its ok WhAT'...(even walker, i refused but give in afterall)
The only thing i didnt give its salty stuff and her porridge wont have salt. If you know what i feed my gal, you will faint..
If you can 'ren' thru, just dont bother..after all, its your gal..for me, i am staying with my parents..its tough to stop sometimes..
I do love your gal hair..just let them know, its ur gal..regarding the hair, its up to you to cut or not etc..
usually when i am super pissed, i will just said that, 'its my daughter, so i do what i want..ur time of bringing up children had past, now its my turn'...usually, i wont snap at my parents, just on strangers..and my dad always take my side when i comment that my mum really spoilt my gal..