Your boy is so cute
does he know what happened to u and why did u cry? Last year when TTC, Whenever my menses come, I'll cry a little.. My boy will comfort me and ask him what happened when my hubby not home yet.. I'll tell him that mommy is not able to give him a sibling yet.. He told me ," mommy, it is okie. You still have me. Keep trying, and be patient. Don't give up."
so we all don't give up, our turn will surely come
He knows that sac doesn't grow n no bb formed.. He too told me say thing when I apologise to him for not being able to give him a bro or sis.. He told me is nvm most impt now is pple ard us .. omy I'm dumbfounded n his words touched me ..
Ur son is so sweet .. don worry we will definitely get one more otw soon. God will know our desires n answer our prayers according to his will..
bel_vodka: hey take care babe.. u need to do a really good confinement after this. hugs!!! mine was also a blighted ovum. but my HCG was 50,000!!
imho i feel D&C is a cleaner way to deal with the blighted ovum.. and it gives a very good closure. cos i know of another sista who did the oral med method and she had cramps and bled.. thats what I feel.
but whatever choice u make, u will be sronger after this, rest well and try again when u are fully recharged. we are all with you!
Thanks dear.. my mom gg to cook pig trotter vinegar tml for me.
Gynae gave me 3 options tdy aft v scan..
1 . let it mc naturally 20 %
2 . dnc 80 % side effect may hv a chance to affect the lining..
3 . pills 90 % side effect cramps etc as per what u hv mentioned.
Initially I choose option 1 and even hold back on antibiotics prescription for any possibilty of getting infection in womb .. coz i wanted try 1 more wk to c if grow but he honestly tell me it won't ..
Aft i stepped out from his room I texted hb he asked me not to hold on to it since not growing then no pt.
So i went to nurse to get the pills for option 3..
Anyway also good .. dnc need to tk GA my body will collapse aft GA..as I ever had GA n was lethargic for very long time..
For my prev mc was option 1 coz everything came too sudden all red gushing out like flood .. but still all is clear out naturally.
Ur hcg level is so high .. lets all try again. Don't give up. ..
hi Bel,
stay strong ok... so nice that ur son acc u to see doc. great tat u see TSB tdy, haha she wont kick u out la... u are very fertile than b4. do build up ur health, rest well and ttc again.
hugs.
Seeing tsb on sat 3pm hehe not tdy..hugs thanks dear
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bel_vodka yup u really must do well in ur short confinement ok. see u soon.
hope u enjoyed ur movie
Tdy whole programme of jap food lunch and movie and shopping and dinner is meant to distract myself and also to thank my ds for going thru tdy event.. and to thank him for being my ds. Lol right...
wow ur son is so sweet! such a darling... if me , i wouldn't dare cry in front of my son. i oso nv cry in front of my hubby.
I tried to ctrl but they already seen me broke dwn during last wed 1st spotting saga n ytd .. my son kept consoling me ytd.. juz nw eat jap food eat half way my tears also roll down unknowingly his eyes stunned n looked at me till I realised and quickly be normal n eat ...
it's good to have a nice trip! do enjoy urself. haha ur son so cute ya ask u don cry siu siu
Lol ya lo he is a lil man in his character. .v strong character. .