Support group - Miscarriages


hi miracle - dont fret, slowly. coz when we nag too much they will feel stress which is bad also. ya maybe let the professionals talk to him. also we cannot expect them to cut down on everything or eat everything we tell them to. if they do means there is some improvement.

ultimately we don't want to spoil our husband and wife relationship. check womb, very cool. next time i go nuh also ask abt checking womb.

ChrisL - lol thanks. hope that it will be a good happening night.
 
chrisl said:
try to give yourself some relaxing time in between work..stress too much not good :) go for a toilet break etc
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Recently been really stress up at work so eating to de stress :x I hope my first af after the mc is coming! Feeling moody too! Hope won't delay too much
 
mangohope said:
Recently been really stress up at work so eating to de stress :x I hope my first af after the mc is coming! Feeling moody too! Hope won't delay too much
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Wah mango! You so late? Go sleep now hehe..stress might delay AF..stay cool k..
 
mangohope said:
Recently been really stress up at work so eating to de stress :x I hope my first af after the mc is coming! Feeling moody too! Hope won't delay too much
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Me too...on 31dec dr says coming soon until now? Feeling some bearable pain for few days waiting to come like that hope faster come n no pain on e 1st day.
 
Thanks chrisl and hopeful mum...............

Hopefully , during the checkup on Jan 18 he will listen to the doctor bah...........worse still he smokes..............sighsssssss
 
So is any sisters starting on the journey soon? I can't start until all tests results are out as yet...................
Need to wait till Jan 18th................
 
mangohope said:
I can understand the feeling of taking dupbaston! But for us to maintain a pregnancy we need to take it. I took it 3 times daily and I guess after they cut down the dosage to 2 times daily and my mc happened :(
Day 2 at home and my colleagues one by one sending me whatsapp to be strong and they miss me but it's kinda hurting to see those msg! It's like reminding me of what happened again!
At home watching flower boys next door and the girl just hide inside the room after some tremor.... I wish life can be that easy to hide!
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Dats so true.. Aft i completed 2wks of duphaston 3 wks aft tat e doc says i had a miscarriage. Took cytotec at hm e nxt day. Devastated..
 
Miracle No. 2 said:
So is any sisters starting on the journey soon? I can't start until all tests results are out as yet...................
Need to wait till Jan 18th................
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Kkh okie to let you do recurrent test? My gyane don allowed me to do the test saying wasting money...so angry him lor
How much did you spend on the test?
I will go Nuh recurrent dept end of apr now even worse stuck in between
And feb I have 2 appt one at Nuh and one more at SGH to blood test cos blood test b4 D&C shown 1/100 for antinuclear antibody. So I made 2 appt to c 2 dr for the advise and test. Also aft that need to wait and c whether ANA only during pregnancy time or b4 already having it. So scare also
Now so lost........
 
Miracle No. 2 said:
So is any sisters starting on the journey soon? I can't start until all tests results are out as yet...................
Need to wait till Jan 18th................
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Not yet but I just bding without any protection. Is strike then talk again. If no strike that means I resting and just following dr us instructions

Don't fret abt hubby smoking. Sometimes hor we force them too much really no good.

U look at those ppl take drugs etc still can have baby. So u relax this 2 weeks until u see dr.
 
Give a hope said:
Me too...on 31dec dr says coming soon until now? Feeling some bearable pain for few days waiting to come like that hope faster come n no pain on e 1st day.
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I'm hopping it will come tmr since I did my surgery on the 9th last month.
Normally 1st AF my stomach always super cramp :(
 
Miracle No. 2 said:
Thanks chrisl and hopeful mum...............

Hopefully , during the checkup on Jan 18 he will listen to the doctor bah...........worse still he smokes..............sighsssssss
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Don't worry so much first! My hb has anxiety disorder always very hard to communicate with him also, his mood swing is worst than a girl. Always never thought about my feelings also but no choice we will just need to find ways to convince them.
 
mangohope said:
I'm hopping it will come tmr since I did my surgery on the 9th last month.
Normally 1st AF my stomach always super cramp :(
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My menses come abit on panty liner in the evening but now seen like even lesser than just now
Hope that everything alright and no more pain
 
Hi All,

Have a great weekend!!! its finally Friday! this week has been a busy work. then next week till cny will be busy with work! faint!
rest well, and enjoy ur weekend ladies!
 
BTW some info on brazil nuts: http://sortedfood.com/#!/brazilnutblog/
I have been feeling bloated and slightly uncomfy so I looked up. and I ate abt 6 a day. first time rem I say I ate like half a pack! lol. I cant find the other article that says 6 a day is too much for the body already.

So take max 3 a day okay! :) eat with moderation!
 
hopeful_mum said:
BTW some info on brazil nuts: http://sortedfood.com/#!/brazilnutblog/
I have been feeling bloated and slightly uncomfy so I looked up. and I ate abt 6 a day. first time rem I say I ate like half a pack! lol. I cant find the other article that says 6 a day is too much for the body already.

So take max 3 a day okay! :) eat with moderation!
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Omg 3 a day? Haha no wonder I feel like eating too many when at work cos when feel like eating I will start eating.
 
mangohope said:
I'm still waiting for my af and im experiencing horrible cramp now :(
I hope it's the sign of coming!
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Don worry coming soon already. I was having pain n cramp for couple of day b4 it came n on the 1st day morning feeling super uneasy don feel like going to work that kind but aft that okie already. It came on Thursday today v less like going to finish that kind. You don give urself too much stress just pray that it come fast n smooth :)
 
hopeful_mum said:
Lol cox very yummy. I just treat it as snack when I watch tv. Lol. Told myself stop, then will just eat one more and one more and one more! Lol or more! So after reading I didn't eat yesterday.
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I see. LOL. Too exp so I am controlling myself too.
Usually i eat mixed nuts as snack, maybe you can get some if you want, so just avoid overeating the brazil nuts. :)
 
Fauzieanah Binte Juraimi said:
Anyway wat will happen if we tke more den 3 brazil nuts/day..
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There is a chemical which will not be good to ur body if u overdose. U can try googling. There's always the pros and cons. Cox I ate too much and not well so went to google. And that's what I found. Lol actually princessleopard already said but I just kept eating. Cox I like the taste. Lol
 
Give a hope said:
Kkh okie to let you do recurrent test? My gyane don allowed me to do the test saying wasting money...so angry him lor
How much did you spend on the test?
I will go Nuh recurrent dept end of apr now even worse stuck in between
And feb I have 2 appt one at Nuh and one more at SGH to blood test cos blood test b4 D&C shown 1/100 for antinuclear antibody. So I made 2 appt to c 2 dr for the advise and test. Also aft that need to wait and c whether ANA only during pregnancy time or b4 already having it. So scare also
Now so lost........
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I spent about 250 ++ , if plus hb sperm test is about 69 so total 320 like dat...... My doc in charge is Tan HH, not sure if same?
But he said the same thing, usually the result is all negative....they just can't find a reason for that....................
Did you go to clinic D? Or it's private gynae? Usually gynae will also ask u to take some test one...................
Why u go 2 places for opinion ah? Think NUH is good enough right? Since they are the specialist there?
 
hopeful_mum said:
Good afternoon everyone!

How's everyone doing?

Mangohope - AF reported yet? hope you are feeling better.
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Hi Hopeful mum............

Was a boring monday..............once again.........
I am waitin for my appt this Sat....Wed also have appt for TCM and my thyroid.........hee
hopefully everything okay..............

How about urself? Sorry as i didn't read back the post....how was ur prev post on the hcg was positive ?
 
Miracle No. 2 said:
Hi Hopeful mum............

Was a boring monday..............once again.........
I am waitin for my appt this Sat....Wed also have appt for TCM and my thyroid.........hee
hopefully everything okay..............

How about urself? Sorry as i didn't read back the post....how was ur prev post on the hcg was positive ?
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No prob. Lol I hate Mondays! Too. Unfortunately mine was chemical pregnancy. Rose to 21.2 then dropped back to 5. Af already come or to dr word it's not af it's miscarriage. So whatever.

But I guess I did O. Now in dpo 9 today.

Ur tcm is with who? Cannot rem. hope all is well :)
 

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Hello everyone

I had a mc 2013 January and l have been with a tcm doctor ever since then to help regulate periods and all. Last week l went to see Dr. Urmila at Mt. A. She said l have PCOS and must do further tests once again. I have already done all tests at KK on September 2012. But when l told her l was seeing my tcm doctor she didnt seem very keen and also told me that she cannot advise if l can continue taking the herbs together with the medicine she will be prescribing. Anyone knows if we can mix tcm with western medicine?
 
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