Thank you faith65For me the nurse explained and ensured I understand what procedure I going through.. They only require my signature on the consent form..
Thank you faith65For me the nurse explained and ensured I understand what procedure I going through.. They only require my signature on the consent form..
Hi,
I will like to ask if going for the D&C, do we need to send any consent form? Does both me and my husband have to be on the spot to sign together ? Cos my husband is in educational role, it will unprofessional for him to absent from work like that. I think I can managed to go thru the operation without him (I will try my best as I don't to be a burden to him), I just wonder need his signature to proceed for the operation or not.
Which gynae did u c? Fertility gynae? Means not seeing high risk gynae? If got scar need to be removed? My menses from 1st month aft procedure came 4 days den 2nd month 3 days this month left only 2 days...it makes me worry.My first mc, the menses came around 1 week later. The second mc is about 6 weeks after d&c. My menses after that went regular (for my case it's 32 to 35 days cycle). I fell sick every month after my d&c with fever, flu & cough during the 4 months each episode with 2 rounds of antibiotics from GP.. (not sure is it I didn't do my mini confinement right?!) The menses flow is also lesser compared to previously which prompted me to seek second opinion from another gynae.
I didnt insert the pill. I took it orally. You will get cramps after eating the pill and may start bleeding. So once you take the pill you need to wear your pad already. It is the same medicine for those who take when they mc naturally.Is it a must to insert pill in 'there' before D&C? I scare...
My Gynae say it's very very common to have MC so usually they recommend that after the 3rd consecutive MC..I had 2 in a row but yet was I told not do it..esp since I have a healthy 1st born..
mine also wasn't so keen on making me do the blood test and detailed US but I insisted on this 1..turn out everything is normal..jz that I had 1 lump which was suspected to be blood clot(did natural MC-which I don't recommend)..and I had spotting for a whole month..other than that, am on my 2nd cycle after my MC..prolly gonna wait for another 3 cycle..let my body let a break..
I hope those who had MC wld post here as well, so that we can share some moral boost..share the hope..stay strong ladies!
Just wanted to drop a word of encouragement. Take things one day at a time. Crying it out helps but at the back of ur mind, always know there is hope.
I lose my first pregnancy at 7 weeks last Aug. This Aug I'm 36 weeks pregnant.
Hugs to all of you. Stay strong and have faith.
I was thinking of sending the tissue to lab testing after my D&C, anybody did it before? I not sure if it is worth or not as I always heard others saying if the baby stop growing n had no hb, it is normally due to chromosome abnormal. I don't know how truth it is.
This is my first fet n I got pregnant but at the same time mc at the 8 weeks due to no hb detected. I don't know I am consider lucky or not. To strike in the first fet but mc after that.
Hi Almondearie,Same , I got positive beta from my first fresh cycle. Also an ivf patient. Lost it at 7 weeks, heard hb at 6 then the hb stopped. I trusted my doc, and took faith that the bb is better off where he/she is today than being born unhealthy. And that it's a chromosomes abnormality. 1st time, I think no need to test. Unless u feel v strongly for that to give u closure. 2nd time, maybe. But my fren didn't and she had a live birth 3rd try. We r lucky people dear, cos there r still many who can't get a positive beta after many tries. Hang in there.
Hi Almondearie,
Where u perform ur ivf? And when you intend to go for your 2nd ivf again?
Hi there, my scarring in uterus is also called Asherman syndrome. The development of scarring after d&c is rare but somehow i got it. My new gynae is Dr SF Loh at Thomson medical. (He is the IVF medical director of KKH before Dr Tan HH) He advised to remove as the scarring makes implantation difficult and even if I conceived, the baby may risk with cut limbs or lost ears as the scarring is sharp as baby may knock against the sharp scar inside. He specialise in both fertility & high risk pregnancies.Which gynae did u c? Fertility gynae? Means not seeing high risk gynae? If got scar need to be removed? My menses from 1st month aft procedure came 4 days den 2nd month 3 days this month left only 2 days...it makes me worry.
Btw u rest well k...jiayou for ur 2nd bundle of joy
For D&C, they will insert the medication at our vaginal to open it up and soften it..whereas for natural it's oral..
Happy001, I think u can stop taking it cuz it's not gonna pop out immediately, the body will need some time to Recognise that it's no longer supporting the baby, only then will u start having some cramps..after which only then will your body start pushing it out..
I was thinking of sending the tissue to lab testing after my D&C, anybody did it before? I not sure if it is worth or not as I always heard others saying if the baby stop growing n had no hb, it is normally due to chromosome abnormal. I don't know how truth it is.
This is my first fet n I got pregnant but at the same time mc at the 8 weeks due to no hb detected. I don't know I am consider lucky or not. To strike in the first fet but mc after that.
I asked . The chromosome abnormal test cost ard 500+. The D&C cost ard $3600+.I took oral medicine the night before and was advised no food thereafter. My d&c was performed the next morning. I also asked my Gynae if there's any test can be done to find out what's wrong with bb. But I didn't confirm with my gynae that I would like the test done so he didn't send for test. So if you really want to test have to inform your gynae first hand. I believe there will be charges incurred..
Hi,
I will like to find out when can we start to eat confinement food aft D&C? Can start on the day after D&C itself? Cos I know we will be prescribing antibiotic after the surgancy, can we mix western medicine with Chinese medicine ?
Hi,
I will like to find out when can we start to eat confinement food aft D&C? Can start on the day after D&C itself? Cos I know we will be prescribing antibiotic after the surgancy, can we mix western medicine with Chinese medicine ?[/
I think no problem to start confinement food right after d&c if it can be arranged. The food are mostly cooked with lotsa ginger, wine and Chinese herbs. After d&c I was discharged in the noon on day 1.. so just had normal meal and I started confinement meal on day 2.
The nurse advised me against wine (DOM, Yomeishu, ginger etc) and tonics as they concerned about prolonged bleeding. I avoided wine but continue to take tonic soup in the confinement meal package.
I asked . The chromosome abnormal test cost ard 500+. The D&C cost ard $3600+.
Baby gone, money also gone. I decided to send for the Lab testing, i wanted to have a closure for my baby. The root cause.
I started on the next day cos by the time i was discharged it was late evening already. Tcm and western med must be taken 2 hours apart. But i only see tcm after I stopped bleeding. Cos i think during the bleeding they usually dont tiao the body?Hi,
I will like to find out when can we start to eat confinement food aft D&C? Can start on the day after D&C itself? Cos I know we will be prescribing antibiotic after the surgancy, can we mix western medicine with Chinese medicine ?
Hi,
I will like to find out when can we start to eat confinement food aft D&C? Can start on the day after D&C itself? Cos I know we will be prescribing antibiotic after the surgancy, can we mix western medicine with Chinese medicine ?
Hi all, appreciate your feedback on the procedure. If not due to u gals, I also don't know who to turn to.I started on the next day cos by the time i was discharged it was late evening already. Tcm and western med must be taken 2 hours apart. But i only see tcm after I stopped bleeding. Cos i think during the bleeding they usually dont tiao the body?
I don't mean the TCM medicine. I mean can I drink those DOM, Martel and those Chinese tonic immediate aft D&C. I afraid it will mess up my dirty bleeding. Then my internal will not clean up completely clean and remaining tissue struck inside.I started on the next day cos by the time i was discharged it was late evening already. Tcm and western med must be taken 2 hours apart. But i only see tcm after I stopped bleeding. Cos i think during the bleeding they usually dont tiao the body?
Hmm. Those I not very sure then. Cos i didnt take those. I only ordered confinement tingkat and drink red date longan tea.I don't mean the TCM medicine. I mean can I drink those DOM, Martel and those Chinese tonic immediate aft D&C. I afraid it will mess up my dirty bleeding. Then my internal will not clean up completely clean and remaining tissue struck inside.
Hi faith65,
When u start DOM and ginger aft ur D&C?
I don't mean the TCM medicine. I mean can I drink those DOM, Martel and those Chinese tonic immediate aft D&C. I afraid it will mess up my dirty bleeding. Then my internal will not clean up completely clean and remaining tissue struck inside.
I ordered from natal essentials. The food is not bad big portions. Can share with your hubbs sometimes. 2nd week onwards menu can be repetitive. They do have 7 days tingkat.Hi shiningstar,
Which tingkat u ordered? Nice?
Doc already give me mc for 1 weeks starting from tmr D&C till next Friday. Is it enough for the confinement?i know normally need do min of 2 weeks confinement.
Hi shiningstar,
Which tingkat u ordered? Nice?
Doc already give me mc for 1 weeks starting from tmr D&C till next Friday. Is it enough for the confinement?i know normally need do min of 2 weeks confinement.
I ordered from natal essentials, lunch and dinner, for 7 days. Will start on thu. But the problem is they don't do delivery on ph (which is the coming Friday). I have to find ways to settle my meals on my own.I ordered Richfood catering. They serve cod fish and salmon which I like very much. Soup is also good but a little savoury. They also provided thermal bag to keep the food warm. I opted for brown rice and the serving is enough for 2. Red dates and longan drink they provide every meal is very rich.
After I complete the package I ordered their tingkat dinner. But can't expect same ingredient because of the price difference.
Try to ask your gynae to give 2 weeks HL.
I think most of the caterer dont deliver on ph. I just eat normal food on the days they dont deliver. I am not sure about you but I am not ok to go back work so soon. I just wanna be alone at that pt of time.I ordered from natal essentials, lunch and dinner, for 7 days. Will start on thu. But the problem is they don't do delivery on ph (which is the coming Friday). I have to find ways to settle my meals on my own.
I think I don't wanna extend my HL, cos staying at home makes me feel v miserable, mayb gg back to work will makes me busy and passed time more fast. Anyway I hv been On 3 mths HL since I pregnant. No more HL Liao.
I was wondering , we cannot touch water after D&C, but definitely we need to wash face, hand and brush teeth every day right N don't need wash meh after doing big business ... Sure we will touch water.
Hi shiningstar,
Which tingkat u ordered? Nice?
Doc already give me mc for 1 weeks starting from tmr D&C till next Friday. Is it enough for the confinement?i know normally need do min of 2 weeks confinement.
Can we go out 3 days aft D&C? My husband birthday is 3 days after my D&C, I don't bear to c him suffering the lost pain with me at home that day.
My gync gave me 2 weeks HL. But you can consider clear annual leave if you're not ready for work
My gynea given me 2 weeks HL, but making me staying at home will only makes me think anyhow and more miserable though my boss asked me to rest n take care of my health first. The image of the D&C still v clear in my mind. I will nv forgot this. I will c how, if I can make it, I will rest for this week and get myself back to work next week. Time is so slow at home.I think ppl usually drink red date longan tea after d&c.
There are no hard and fast rules on the dos and donts after d&c or mc. Some treat it strictly like doing a real confinement. Some dont even do any confinement. Some just do the minimal. For myself, i only ordered 2 weeks confinement tingkat. On ph, i just eat normal food. I brewed red date longan tea on top of what is provided with the tingkat but i also drink plain water. Try not to blow fan or on aircon but sometimes it is really hard.
On gg out, i think it depends more on your emotional and physical health. I hate gg out at that point of time. Cos i just wanna hibernate at home. I dont want to go out and see babies toddlers prams preggies etc. If you feel ok i dont see why you cant go out. But bear in mind that you are on mc. So not very nice if u bumped into ur colleagues.
Hi shining star,Rest well Happy001. I dont think you can ever forget about the d&c. It has been 4 mths for me but the very day they took my baby out from me is still so fresh in my head. Heal at your own pace. Diff ppl have diff healing process so there is no one size fits all. Just do whatever that makes you happy.
For me, the bleeding was minimal. There was also on and off spotting. But everything stopped within 2 weeks. That is becos for d&c they cleaned us up so there shouldnt be massive bleeding.
I didnt do blood test as well. Review was 2 weeks after d&c. Just did a tummy scan. All good and got another week of HL. Menses come 6 weeks after d&c. It will take awhile for our hcg to be zero. Once it is zero, our system will auto reset. Ovulation may or may not occur and then our lining will shed and menses will begin.
Hi shining star,
Now then I knew Is not easy gg thru the D&C, though is a half an hour job. The emotional portion.... I cried in the operation threate before the procedure when they wanna GA me. The doc tell me don't be so sad, try again, now proven u can be pregnant just the luck is not with u, just let her take out the baby, free the baby and free urself then she put me to sleep alrdy. And when they woke me up after the procedure, the first question I asked them is, is my baby gone ? And I cried again.
Doc said she did scanned the tummy for me during the operation after the procedure, the linning gone back to the thin. And she will confirmed again after 3 weeks and at the same time go thru the chromosome report with me.
I don't really feel like working now nor did I feel like trying again. Cos this feeling is really v no good...really v bad...