<font color="119911">U</font>, please remember to have a 2 wks mini confinement. Ur loss is in first tri, right? If u can, try to take ess of chicken everyday. It does help to nourish the body!
<font color="aa00aa">Giggler</font>, like what <font color="ff6000">Folic</font> said, sometimes, it is best not to say too much. Maybe just that u r sorry and ask ur friend to take care of herself. Seriously, i guess u just have to be there for her if she needed someone to talk to! But i doubt she will as during that period, i also cant talk to anyone else.... It just made me sad and those tears that already dried, will shed again!
It is really very hard....
I felt so sad when i learnt that there is still so much losses....
Today i went for my checkup. Was happy to see that BB is growing fine. BB lay on her back with her little leg crossed stretched out straight like doing sit and reach, but instd of sitting, she is laying on her back.
Cant see the gender to double-confirm as her legs is crossed. Things looked so well when suddenly the sonagrapher pointed out that my animoic fluid was low.
I really got a shocked!
But she asked me to chk with my gynae when i see her.
You know, i felt that it was lucky that i insisted to have a scan today which was not scheduled and by insisting that, today, i b seeing a specialist instd of MO.
The specialist happened to be that nice lady doc. She checked my vaginal and i remembered abt the cervix thingy abt being short and asked if my cervix is normal. She said ok and checked for any water leakage. The results is not conclusive as 50% show positive and 50% showed negative. So i was referred to see a consultant and he explained to me in more details about the low animotic fluid level. Why it happened, it's effect and what can be done...
Then he asked any particular reasons why i was given a growth scan so fast as it is not normal practise to scan in just one mth after my detailed scan. Told him i insisted to have a scan but cldn't really answered him more as my eyes started to get wet...
While typing this, i can feel tears dropping...
<font color="ff6000">Folic</font>, at that moment, i remembered u, cos u had lost ur BB Jie at wk 23. And here i am in my wk 23.
Anyway, the Consultant did another test on my vaginal again to see if there is anymore leakage cos if there is, the results will be more conclusive.
As i dun wanna to be hospitalized again, initially the Consultant wanted me to come back 1-2days later for scan. But having chk with ADC, they asked me to do the scan today again. This time, to check on the blood flow from the plancentra to BB and also bllod flow in BB's brain.
Scan revealed that blood flow is ok and this time the fluid had increaded from 5.4 to 6.8. The consultant popped in at the u/s room and commented it is good. But he told me we still cannot take it lightly. I was classified under High risk and was asked to go back for another scan in a week's time! However, if i had fever, constant pain, or anything wrong, i had to rushed back to KK.
Sigh... I knew that there will be some risk in this current pregnancy as hubby got a medium lot when we prayed at Guanyin Niang niang there.
Hai.... now i try to drink slightly more water!
Praying and hoping for the best!
To all, please try to stay positive hor! I am trying too, but it is hard. We all Jia You together, ok!