Chanel
*big hugs* i do suppose some do get preggy rather fast..depending on your body physically and emotionally (cos you know yourself best) i would say try when you think you are ready..
mikkio
sorry i don't hv a child myself yet and also think most ladies here too are trying still..but having worked with children over 10 years now i would try my best to answer..
How old is your child now? If he/she is say 2-3years old easy..don't remind them again OR talk about the bb at all. It will NOT HELP to say to them that 'there's no more bb'. They'll not understand, at all.
If he/she ask again
-tell them bb will come again next time. Do not say 'bb no more'. Instead say bb not ready yet.
-Then say that your tummy is like an oven, and make a story of how the oven helps to make food, like baking buns in the oven, they are not ready yet, cannot eat right? Then talk about other things to divide his/her attention like the topic can be linked to buns..asked him what buns he likes? Cheese bun/sausage buns etc he'll most likely talk about other things already. Or perhaps ask if he wants to go play in the playground?
If 4-5 years, tell that bb will come again just that bb is preparing himself/herself. It takes time to grow, show them picture books animal life cycle and explain from there eg: Will take time to hatch cos mummy hen needs to incubate the eggs. Tell him/her that your egg inside is incubating as well..it'll take time
And when the topic comes up again, don't stress, just say bb will come later not now yet, need time in the 'oven' in mummy's tummy remember? Then change topic, ask hmm are you hungry? You want ice cream?
Most of all is not to say 'bb no more'..your state of mind is the driving factor here on how you'll react to your child. I suppose you also want not to be reminded about it again, cos im sure you are looking forward to a new conception right
Good luck sister! Hope this little helps and do let me know if my method works