Hi BellyButton,
I was holding my breath as I read your post. I hope the fluid will remain in the bag and that all is well. I'm just curious, where do they get the fluid? Will the fluid cause any infection. Strange that the doc in KKH din give you this alternative of amnio-infusion. Yes, my gynae is WK Tan.
Hi TSH,
Last time I used to think this way too, how we bore the same battle marks of pregnancy, but others have their babies, but I don't. Now I seldom think this way, because I'm thankful for simply being alive and having my wonderful hubby beside me. I hope your hubby is coping well? Sometimes he may not appear to be upset, but in fact he is worried about you. Do take care of each other. Also you may experience a roller coaster of emotions. One minute feel happy and ok, another minute feel totally lost and hopeless. Just to tell you that what you are feeling is perfectly normal and is part of the grieving process. A sister told me "You are knocked down, but you are not knocked out!" Give youselves some time to heal and when you feel that you are ready, you can try again for a second child. Be kind and gentle with yourself. Do you know how I cope with my grieving? Compulsive shopping! I enjoyed myself by shopping for clothes, or simply trying on clothes. Do things that make you happy. Go for a haircut! Like me, colour my hair until I look like Ah Lian.