Hi, thewife,
I agree totally with Catz, get all the help you can get. I stayed at home for 1.5yrs after my dd was born. Like you I had a confinement lady for the 2st two months then I was on my own. And man, was it tough!
The whole day is all about the bb, expressing, feeding, washing, bathing, diapering... I had to get tingkat dinners and lunch was usually leftovers or my hubby wld buy back for me. There was simply no way I could manage housework and caregiving. It got a little better when my bb took to semi-solids at 6mos, but even then lunch was watery porridge at 3pm during her afternoon nap.
This is when I truly appreciate my mother's and grandmother's generation!
BTW, my bb was the very clingy type of bb, must see me all the time otherwise, cries a river type of bb. Even up to now! sighz.