hihi...haven't been in here...busy busy. haiz. stressed out with maid issues too. sianz.
wah, pet, I also wun let anyone touch baby L when we're out...much less carry her. It happened before, when she was just 2+ mths old at church. We were walking towards the canteen (coz my ILs were there, so go say Hi). This lady walked past "oh so cute!", then suddenly hand stretch out to touch her face. Wah Piang!!! Your hands clean or not? Came from canteen leh? Eat got wash hands boh? hahaha...HB 'scolded' the lady. Literally pushed the hand away "Excuse me, pls don't touch. She's still young."
Basically we dun care if pple view us as over the top, so gan cheong for wat etc...coz if anything happens, it's US who will suffer along with baby. Not the stranger who touches...So...too bad for the stranger lah. hahaha.
Even HB's colleagues. They can "forcefully" just "eh eh" come and carry baby L. I didn't even hand her over. I kept holding her towards me, close to me. But this colly of hb's can still just 'eh eh' carry her out of my arms. Wah...that time dunno what to do, coz sekali offend colleauges. But lucky thing that one was a familiar colleague and he's quite erm, plump. So got a comfy "chair" for baby as he carried her. hahahahaha. But after that, we decided NO more. haha. Anyone want to carry, we just say, "no lah. she needs to feed. Hungry."
Iso,
I SO like your 3rd statement.
If it's towards strangers, i'll say "feeding time" or "change diaper time" and walk away.