baby
I still using the pupsik pouch to carry my boy shopping, find it very useful still and also good exercise, like carrying weights for training. Why don't u try using, since u have it, then go out no need stroller. Sometimes nobody wants to sit on the stroller, so groceries/shopping bags will sit...haha.
Pandawife
Why not jackfruit ? My boy has tried jackfruit and also durian, both he don't like, I think the fruit is too strong smelling for him.
The tcm 'drug' is it those that may cause drowsiness, that's why sleep so well ? ..haha.
Gan
If your gal sleep between 12-14 hrs a day, its ok if she wakes up early. Maybe let her sleep later, so she wake up later ?? But if she wakes for milk, if you think its too early for you, bb can be trained to change their habit. My kids don't get milk until after 7am. If my boy wakes at 6am, which sometimes he does, just make him sleep again, he will sleep for another hr or so.
Your gal's constipation is it due to too much fibre ?