Maybe test few days later if AF didn't show up? And stay relax..
That's why I was curious since not all will thaw well, some will not survive.. If they thaw a few and all survived, will only choose the best and discard the rest? Can't re-freeze right?
I learnt a lot here too. All the best to you!I did my first appointment with Dr Lim at NUH instead of SGH.
Now waiting for my menses which is 3 days late by the way. Just hoping that the cycle days don't fall on Sat or Sun for the scheduled test or else need to wait for next cycle.
I am usually on time but i think aunt flo got scared with all the scheduled test i suppose hehe.
Can't wait to start the IVF cycle.
This is a really good forum. I learned a lot from you ladies.
Hopefully things will get better 2 days later... How long is the bleeding already?
Thank you muff. You have been staying strong and positive, with a great heart to encourage others amidst your ordeal. Rooting for you and hope things turn out well *HUGS*
No difference. At 14dp2dt, I had light spotting, very light brown. Had a PIO shot then was ok but next day spot starts again. 16dp2dt night, I had small flow, then next day full flow. Looks exactly like menses and no difference. Until now still red flow like period with clots wor. Gave nothing, just instructed me to repeat beta in 2 days time...
Initially, I just really think its a pure miscarriage and strongly felt it wasn't ectopic but now, I feel dehydrated daily no matter how much I drink then these few days no appetite to eat. Earlier on after the scan, I had 2x diarrhea. The dehydration and no appetite seems very familiar to my ectopic the last time. It was horrible and I didn want to go through that again! In bed for 3 weeks left tube removed and on the verge of blood transfusion. omg!
I hope so!
Wah.. That's quite long right. Hope it will stop soon
Hi, still very bloated (was looking at 7 months pregnant, now maybe 5 months) haha.. But it's not as painful as before (or as hard as before). I had problem walking last week.. Seems to have come down abit.. Hope the bloating will be gone soon..
I also thought about the same thing, maybe quit really will have baby! but in the end, I think it is just fated. I also think that going to work is better for me than staying at home. because I am always thinking too much and researching for silly stuff all the time. hehe
I have an ex colleague who has severe endo and she went for lap twice to clear the endo but it seems that she will still have cramps.... sorry to know that you are still experiencing it too. It's quite painful when her menses comes.
Actually mine was mild endo. But Guess everyone threshold of pain differs as my cramps r bearable but significant. I'm sorry to hear abt what u r going thru now and I hope the best for u
Thanks for the encouragement. Bt nxt Mon. Is already 12dpt, early still? Hmm..I Rem previously my chem pregnancy the hcg couldn't be detected via Hpt but only thru bt. Apart from the af like cramps I also have usual pms, backache, heavy feel at lower abdomen area so hopes r sparse for bfp. Likely the inserts r holding back my af. Shall wait for either af to arrive or bt to be done. I tot endo cramps would decrease significantly but wrong I was, cos my doc asked if the cramps lessens so the general thought that hey cramps will lessen
Let jiayou together! Keep yourself distracted.
Did yr ex colleague manage to conceive with severe endo? I also have severe endo...
How was your BT? Good I supposed?
She was also trying ivf but didn't succeed. Endo cleared though. Till now still no good news I believe so. She left already. The last I heard she was with sincere lab.
I am also working. But I am thinking of taking a break as it is very disruptive to work for the frequent need to take leave for scans etc. Not all bosses and colleagues are supportive and I also can understand why. I just dropped hints to my boss today about taking no pay leave and he said what if u take a break already and still no baby. DuhI am working. Just need to let this out. Informed my boss about my ET next week. But didn't get a supportive respond from her. Quite disappointed already. Sigh. Looks like i need to make plans to come back to office the next day after ET.
Thanks DawnBB. Your words are very encouraging. I think only pple who is going through this will really understand how we feel.
She like that say... abit er... they can never understand how we feel. Others can easily have it. 1..2..3..But we need extra help.. jus hope to strike soon!
Wah lau why your boss like that. Ask him don't jinx u !!
Why u want your hcg to drop? You mentioned you transferred 2 right? Maybe 1 sticked and the other one didn't?Morning ladies! My blood flow seems to be slowing down now ( FINALLY) still have tot go to KK tomorrow for Blood test and see doc...... my hcg better drop otherwise I will be in trouble
It's overly heavy my bleeding. Today still red though slowly... Still possible? Although he did ask me not to assume anything yet la. I am just afraid that the pregnancy is somewhere else or a;ready gone but hcg is wacky!
I've a Friend who did IVF, had bleeding all the way from week 4, and a massive bleed out during the end of first tri. End up is one of the embryo miscarriaged. One still sticky, and her girl is already 1 plus
!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I've read in the ang moh forums of such miracle cases... but most scenarios like mine is either ectopic or MC ... nice to hear that your friend has this miracle!! My hcg is low though....
Actually when I was spotting on 14dpt, I went to 24hr to ask the doc to give me a PIO jab. Then i started bleeding heavily on 16dpt, I stopped all support because I thought Im a goner. When i went back for Beta, it continue to rise, I told doc i stopped support lei, he also never ask me continue lei, I also dont know how liao. I am going back for beta again tomorrow morning. pure misery keep on gana poked. Some nurse really dont know how to take blood. can die.
wa, invisible veins? Same as me! was hospitalised previously for ohss and the nurses and some sr dr actually gave up poking me using normal and butterfly ones. they so scare of poking me and wanted to ask dr tan to do do it himself. ended up full of bruises on both my hands..
Same, so I'll tell the Nurses u confident Liao then poke..
You heng leh! my both ER time do the IV so pain. but normal blood test i dont feel pain. lol. are you also from kkh ?
ya KK!
the nurse from the ward did something like that. put warm water inside the gloves. then rest on my hand for like 30 mins. but i think i was too dehydrated (initially they wanna put me icu) in the end still cannot see. but im glad, its over. hehe..
Wow! Doubt the Kk nurses are that patient Hahahaha
The night before ET still need to insert, the day of transfer no need insert
