Hi Anita, hope ur ET went well
Hey himei...relax girl..dun't worry..talk 2 hubby n let him know how u feel..cry it out to him n tell him honestly his words hurt u..they can't read our mind girl..men r men *rolls eyes* tell him how badly u wan a kid...honest speech wakes most people up...he will understand...try again n never give up k..god loves you..everything happens 4 a reason..mayb aftr tis u n hubby will be more loving, kind n open wth ur feelings
*hugs*
all the best to u..
). If not hubby can jab for u, it is also a way of men showing their support. Don't worry, u can do it! I had a lot of fear at first but all these are nothing!
Hi Mei, sorry to hear abt the BFN. Don't give up and surely don't feel bad abt yourself. It takes both parties and the bit on the 'defective' body is just crap. This is not the time for finger pointing. Be strong for yourself and your coming babies! Think about it on the bright side - maybe it wasn't a viable pregnancy, so better now than lose it later. Totally understand how you feel as I've just gotten over my BFN too. Let yourself cry out and release all the stress, then tell yourself try again! Together, we never give up!
Hi Vivine, thanks for dropping by my blog
I'm now waiting for AF to come, may decide to do FET with my single fighter embbie. Though it's only one and is a grade 3, i think I won't let any chance slip by cos every single embbie is precious! . If this FET doesn't work out, I'd probably have to wait till early next year to try again.
Hi Mei, just to share, you can try to get your hubby to take 'Vigor Ace', which is sold at guardian pharmacy. Think KKH pharmacy has it too. Dr Sadhana also told me that I had implantation failure and suggested that I go for a 'scraping' procedure. She said apparently, this is new discovery and many of her patients tend to be successful after they go for this procedure which scrapes the endometrium lining. It's a 5-10mim process which is similar to a Pap smear and cost less than a hundred bucks. Maybe you can ask your doc abt it in your next review.Hi Vivine, thanks for your kind words. Tan HH can only see patients one month later if it is a failed cycle. I think it is just implantation failure since I don't have AMH or ovulation issues. We are doing IVF because of very low sperm count/motility/morphology etc. Hence, IVF is the only way and have to try again. Just need to convince my hubby. Thanks for the support
Hi Mei, just to share, you can try to get your hubby to take 'Vigor Ace', which is sold at guardian pharmacy. Think KKH pharmacy has it too. Dr Sadhana also told me that I had implantation failure and suggested that I go for a 'scraping' procedure. She said apparently, this is new discovery and many of her patients tend to be successful after they go for this procedure which scrapes the endometrium lining. It's a 5-10mim process which is similar to a Pap smear and cost less than a hundred bucks. Maybe you can ask your doc abt it in your next review.
good luck for upcoming FET. I wld also have made same choice as u as every embryo is precious. Will look up this endometrial scraping thing, sounds interesting!
Huh.. That's not very advisable. The antibiotics are supposed to ensure that the sperm is healthy enough for the implantation. Maybe you can try to convince him again before you even start your next cycle? If not, hide them in his food! HahahThanks Redlingsinc for your encouragement
For supplements, don't think hubby will take. Doc already spoken to him abt the sperm count and gave him some vitamins and herbal medication he refused to eat. Even the course of antibiotics for the IVF he didn't finish. He is quite against medication or supplements.
U can buy fresh oyster from sheng xiong and cook for him. Jus steam ten min will do , it would increase sperm countThanks Redlingsinc for your encouragement
For supplements, don't think hubby will take. Doc already spoken to him abt the sperm count and gave him some vitamins and herbal medication he refused to eat. Even the course of antibiotics for the IVF he didn't finish. He is quite against medication or supplements.
hi_mei, it sounds like a good suggestion . U may consider about it. Try for any chanceHi Mei, just to share, you can try to get your hubby to take 'Vigor Ace', which is sold at guardian pharmacy. Think KKH pharmacy has it too. Dr Sadhana also told me that I had implantation failure and suggested that I go for a 'scraping' procedure. She said apparently, this is new discovery and many of her patients tend to be successful after they go for this procedure which scrapes the endometrium lining. It's a 5-10mim process which is similar to a Pap smear and cost less than a hundred bucks. Maybe you can ask your doc abt it in your next review.
Hi vivine, the scraping is to be done before a fresh cycle, so not applicable for FET.
Hi Vivine, thanks for the suggestion. Will try it
Hi Mei, I understand how u r feeling. For now, u must be strong, keep ur times busy , eat healthy and sometime later, talk to ur hubby again ok? I am sure he does want a baby too, else he will not have went for the first time...
MIL r so irritating adding pressure to a couple's life...
I think your husband just doesn't understand at this moment. maybe he just cant accept the failure at the moment.....
Hi vivi..jus noticed ur post to mine..yes yesbi can share but it might sound silly 4 some..but these were advice given by a gh nurse tovher on wat to do n not..guess it was a friendly advice..but I do follow it..later today I will post the list.
Hi ocean gal,
hi Anita, thank you very much, will go thourgh your list after you post it... haha.... it is a great help to sharing your experience with all of us.
