Same in my case - mine left his gf & badly wants me back now. Seems like he values my worth now. but what's the point. Nothing can be undone. 9 mths of separation leaving me to defend fr my son just made me stronger to move forward. Im not regretting taking the first step to ask fr divorce. Many having been coaxing me to join baq with him. But I cant seem to accept neither see a future w him. Even now , hes staying temporarily at our flat. He keep changing his mind & said now just return the flat back to hdb & can pay me only $300 maintenence fr our son. Just pissing me off. Im paying the fr the house , reno loan son expenses all by myself. To think abt it, hes a waste of my time.