Hi Pau Ling
Yah, I kana post natal for 3 months. I couldnt handle baby and my own mother. Everything stresses me out, was crying everyday. I came to the forum to seek advice, there will be many advice and well wishes. So, I'm very thankful for to all those mummies. My hb is aware, and he tries to help me out, but he was very stressed out by me. Cause whatever he says can trigger my crying spells. So he had to watch his words, he also very 'cham'
We are the opposite, your MIL likes to help, for me is my own mum. She is doing what your mum is doing too, even worse, blame me for everything i.e when I chose to breastfeed, blame me when baby cries and blame me when she doesnt take her naps. Sigh... everything I do is wrong to her. And she also scolds me when my baby's tongue got those milky white stuff which was very stubborn to remove then.
Wah, I didnt know can toilet train baby at 6 mths! You are right, as long as your son is growing well and happy, the milestones are really up to individual.