Lbt,
Yaloh, I see the pic, the gal look like the one in his family photos. Dr Fong tt time asked my hubby to guess if she's boy or gal. My hubby already knew e answer so told him gal. He so happy n told ask she look like gal to him ah? Cos everyone thinks she's a boy. LOL...
Lbt, Hazeline,
Sorry loh, she die I'll nv think that way also loh. Or maybe that would even be a relief to Hubby and me loh. Hehe~ Cos she is nothing but trouble... Everything her name is bot up, confirm unhappiness arise between me n hubby one. How to love her?
I think she really traumatized Erica lah. That woman... Erica finish her milk, she carry, rock n shake her, until she puke! And on me somemore. How I wish she puke on her loh. Told her so many times not to rock and shake baby, hubby not ard, her pattern come back liao. Tell hubby, she denied everything. Then 4pm Erica's nap time, and I told her Erica wanna sleep already. Then she raised her voice and said out loud to Erica, Baby, then u sleep loh. Sleep lah! I tot u want to sleep? Your mummy said U want to sleep, why you never sleep? Waliao, she talk like that, how Erica gonna sleep???
I really suspect how she brought up her 2 children. Now I know my hubby had a traumatic childhood... U see the way she handle baby, how to trust Erica under her care???
Then kept repeating that Erica will catch Eczema from me cos I had Eczema. Basket! I did research and they said those with Asthma family background more prone to Eczema. So she wanna blame me, I should blame her for passing Asthma to my hubby first loh.
Then I told hubby to tell her to stop saying all these esp in front of Erica. Hubby told FIL to talk to MIL. FIL told her nicely, she wanna commit suicide by jumping down 5am in the morning. Crazy or not u tell me?
Now she hates me to the core cos hubby told her, she wanna jump, he help her. Then she cry and beg my hubby don't. I told my hubby, he 50 yrs old, she still haven kill herself yet one loh. Only drama mama making everyone's life so miserable.
And she so hate me until the next day she nv even bring her mum to see my gal when my grandma in law said wanna see baby. But nvm, I don't mind. She hates me means she will not wanna see me n she'll come n disturb my Erica also. I happier this way. The longer she hates me, the better it is.
Now hubby said I have a role to play for her wanna commit suicide cos should I nv brought up e issue she kept saying Erica, non of these will happen. But what the hell! I've been keeping quiet since pregnancy when she kept saying it and she took it for granted. Keep saying and saying it. Then say my side genes not gd cos their side no Eczema etc loh. Says who. BIL have Eczema loh, I only don't want to talk back at her n she's taking it for granted n out of control loh.
Hazeline, U tell me lah, how to love someone like this???
