Tigi,
Many thanks for your blessings Tigi...
Go with your heart and you will always have my support and the support of the sisters here. When the time comes that you want us to nag at you like some old auntie (I can do that very well from practiscing with hubby), just tell me and I will do it. In the meantime, give yourself space and time and one day, an inspiration might come.
Next time when you get such questions like how many years married, why no children, from people whom you sense are trying to judge, tell them you are still thinking about whether you want a kid. They will probably follow up with remarks like "aiyo, must try while young you know". Tell them "thanks, but I am not even sure if I want a child". Like that, it will not give them a further chance to make further advances. That is what I tell people whom I can sense is not asking out of pure concern but want to judge. I will only tell people whom I trust about my fertility challenge. Its a suggestion for you Tigi, don't let mean people have a chance to run down our self-esteem or worst still, go around telling others who and who cannot conceive (I have had a friend who used me as a topic when she goes socialising and it came back to my ears and I stopped telling her any thing true from then). And Jia you sister, give you a lot babydusts *sprinkle sprinkle* and one day soon, you will shock these people with a big tummy and shut them up.
Rostrum
Heheeeee..
thanks thanks sister..I want grow more and more babydust so I can wrap you up with it. Jia you. If you not sure about kk or nuh but still want to consider ivf again, maybe you try to give yourself a safety blanket, go see dr loh once and book a slot first at kk because the queue there is really long and can stretch for 6 months as the longest period I have heard. Three months before the booked month (who knows you might BFP before that yah
), you can then reassess to see if you want kk and if don't want or BFP liao, cancel it and let out the place for another ivfer. Just a suggestion as from what I read, you seems more likely to go kk now.
Lyn,
Yesterday night I went back to check my records for the last pregnancy about the signs (for the second time, I noted down the signs on the chart because I was worried) and it showed that the swollen breast only occurred after I did the positive hpt test. That time I knew when I ovulated so I did hpt test on day 13. It means that even sore boobs can be a lagging indicator. And that time, other than the sore boobs, I did not note down any other signs at all. All the bloatedness, nauseaous, hunger and tiredness only came like during the 7th week. It means that sometimes, even if its bfp, it can be so silent that all signs came after the 2WW and after doing blood test. So keep an open mind to any observations or lack of it k... as the hormones our our bodies are intertwined in such a complex manner that there is no fixed pattern to all cases. BFP to you k
Noi,
Thanks too Noi
Yes, I have reserved all the babydusts to the sisters here and lots lots for you such that in the near future, you will be busy choosing which baby photo to send to Prof Wong to grace. Hope you strike strike strike
Elle,
I forgot to thank you for your babydusts
Lets keep the ball rolling..