Hallow to my ttcing comrades once again
I am finally back at work and regained a part of my freedom, ie is can run errands during lunch…Over the last four months, have been on 24x7 duty to baby and I do miss her every now and then in the office but also value the regained freedom.
Elle,
My lil gal has already tuned herself to planet earth in that her sleeping and feeding at good now. Much earlier, she was such a poor thing, confused between day and nite and that left me sleep deprived too..U are very lucky to have your mom's help leh..envy envy... That will make you enjoy motherhood more. Sometimes I also think about what I want to achieve 10 years down the road and right now. I suppose while caring for our little ones, we must also not forget to look after ourselves and stay healthy and well-groomed too..at least the last two resolutions are within our control..
Lets meet up
I am quite flexi if its lunch in town on the weekday and for lunch on weekends, we can set aside a few dates. Maybe lets take a poll. I shall set aside a few options and the invite is for any sister on this thread and see who respond. If no one respond ;p, we meet up ourselves.
Option One
1. Weekday lunch time at Cityhall. Cityhall as it is the most center part of Singapore. Depending on who wants to meet up, we can adjust the venue accordingly.
Possible dates: 11 Feb, 18 Feb, 25 Feb.
All fridays as fridays are less "rushy".
Option Two
2. Weekend lunch time at Cityhall. Also due to same reason and venue can be adjusted depending on who can come.
Possible dates: 13 Feb, 20 Feb, 27 Feb. All Sunday afternoons. Sorry, because I cannot make it on Sat afternoons.
I will not be bringing my baby if we are meeting on weekend, will leave her with my MIL and hubby. This will an outing for any sisters who just want to chit chat about life, hbs, ttcing, of course babies included. Sisters who are ttcing, pls come if you are free. I believe everyone of us here on this thread are very sensible people having to go thru all these, won't turn it into a baby session for sure. Just want to extend the friendship to beyond virtual reality since we share so much in common. Sisters are free to bring anyone. Can bring pets too..hehee..
Lets decide on the actual date base on the majority rule.
Rostrum,
How are you!!!??? When u read this, faster update us on you and babies k…I do think of you every now and then too
Wonder how you are babies are doing??
Now that I have regain my freedom like before, I will sure drop by often one. Where is your office? If you are coming for outing, we can move to near your office since you must be getting heavier by the day.
Die,
Yes, you are absolutely right, I have set up an nice routine liao as I worry my mom (about 60 year old) will age more with the caring of the baby, so much that my elder sisters think I am like a military officer loh ;p
Gan,
Congrats lots lots. So your girl girl is a december baby..also good..actually for girls, its better to be dec babies than Jan babies. I remember I used to be the oldest girl in class, always feel so "lao" because I was born in Jan.
How are you and girl girl? Update us too
Miss "talking" to you too
Lyn
Lets keep up with the smses and you must also update me on your latest development too k..such as what bak gua to buy. I am checking out what you told me on my way home later..
Mik Mik,
I remember you mik mik. Remember I was so blur, thought you are "milk milk". Thanks for your blessings. I am inspired by your story. Its indeed not easy to hold on when Dr Loh told you the sac was irregular as that would easy dash the hope of any MTB. Your ttcing story was really trying and I must say heart wrecking. Thanks for your encouragement for the sisters here too. I like what you said that "tell yourself your turn will come one day". How true that is loh..Some day, some how, each and everyone of us here will have "its" day.
Congrats on your gal gal too. She is another miracle.
Liz,
Yes, I can testify to your trying pregnancy too. Sometimes, god really like to test our limits, make it extremely difficult for us to concieve and then give us all the hurdles during those months. Cannot agree more that all these seem to be like a very very long dream.
Bingo
You are definitely not the only one to quit for IVF. I believe its correct to follow your heart in this. If at this point in time you believe that you should focus on the program and not think about anything else, than have no second thoughts and go go go for it. Having 2nd thoughts will only add to the stress and not forgetting that ivf is already a very stressful program itself. Jiayou and your day will come. I want to wish that you will have lots of dirty diapers to change in the very very near future
May you bingo bingo, better still with twins and than can close factory liao. Agree with Sunny that money can be earned back later but youth is limited.
Tigi,
How are you too sister?? Update us when you read this k…
Sunny
U also must jiayou k. You always live up to your nick of Sunny, positive as always. May 2011 be a brand new year for us. I want to lose the dark eyering I gain over this months and you gain a sunny baby soon. New year, new hope.
Meow,
Don’t feel down sister….you are still so young. I am a mom only now, time is on your side.
Noi,
I just discovered the PM you sent me. Pls expect my reply soon. You also jiayou k sister, Gambatte for everything in life be it ttcing or own happiness outside of children.
Jude, hopewaves and miraclebaby and Nancy,
You girls are not forgotten. Hold on to that faith and also must love yourselves first and foremost.
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