Poor Mummy,
my boy is 29 mths old already, he is really too playful, but he is more attach to me, eldest (girl) is more attach to grandpa, as he always fight for her, even that she is wrong...thus, she had become very mischiveous, whenever we are out, she must fing something to buy, esle, she will cry and throw tantrum, i insist not to buy, as i don't want my girl think that she can get her way once she angry and cry, but FIL always buy for her...when she and brother fighting, FIL always say brother is the one who start to fight, so, she is the angel, the boy is the evil...but, what i noticed is the boy will not have plot to hurt his sister, will not tell lie...but my girl will think the way to beat her brother back if the brother beat her, and she will protect herself by saying brother is the one who start, exactly learn from FIL and SIL. SIL always brought her out, only 2 of them, then SIL always give her prohibited food,eg. lots of sweets, frech fries,oily and deep fried items, then SIL will tell my girl not to tell me, really too much, teach my girl to cheat me leh...luckily, my girl still too young to cheat me, so, i must monitor her before she been poluted by them, but I really dunno how....this girl also very lazy, nvr want to study, going to school is like going to prison,everything she wants to be the first, else, she will cry and get angry...everytime, the whole family have to give her way to be first,...i dun think it's healthy, but just out of idea on how to educate her, she is 4.5 yrs old, should be able to understand what is good and what is not...she also don't want to do her own thing, eg. put on her dress,socks ,shoes,....don't want to eat herself( someone must hold her food and feed her)as FIL always wanted to do for her, then if he is busy or doing other thing, he must get me to do, i say must let her learn, he will complaint to SIL that I nvr take care my girl..faintz!!!
then when my girl angry to him or SIL, then they start to blame me for not teach my girl properly, crazy!! they are the one who spoilted her, and give me headache!!