Hi girls,
I am back.. and I wished I am back for the good news but worst news. I am new to this thread but not new to forums chat here.
I would like to pour my story out and to share and to hear from peers in the same boat...
I started to register here back in August 2010 with my first pregnancy that got miscarriaged... and then in Dec 2010 got preggy again and was chatting worriedly for the 2nd pregnancy and lost it again...
Hence, I am here with 2 m/c and almost 90 days of no period/cycle didnt start till after 90 days. Around May 2011, i was diagnosed with anti-immune system disease something like that ..but no remedy required, specialist said - just be happy all will be fine...
Keep trying till Sept 2011- feel not right...coz cycle became longer and period became shorter (ie not much blood from day 1). Went back to same gynae in May 2011 from gleneagles(fired my first gynae from gleneagles too; who did twice my d n c); and this new gynae - did a scan and all said - all is fine...
SO keep trying to no avail... and women's 6th sense, around Nov 2011 - asked my GP to recommend another gynae who listen attentively my whole entire story and experiences and immediately suggested I do HSG.
And there I was in Dec 2011 - almost a year later, after 2 times m/c - I had both tubes blocked. Most probably due to all the DnC which may have caused infection and the blockage!!!
TODAY - consulted this 3rd gynae from Mount E- for solutions. He suggested Laparoscopy to see what exactly blocked and a detailed view of whats happening etc. I thought i sure will do the lap,but he sort of to ask me think through all the possible consequences - if blockage cant be cleared - i got to do IVF etc etc. so we ended not havent done anything yet and left his clinic.
my hubby hesitated and said, lets leave, think through and ask for 2nd opinion.
True in fact, a friend of mine, instead of jumping straight to Lap procedure, did another time of HSG ie flushing under stronger pressure and yes! her tubes cleared and she has got twins now. she didnt have to do the lap procedure.
But whats the differences? she hasnt got any m/c history like me.
So, i m very lost of what to do. Hubby became distraught, and drowning himself into work while here I am , trying to read more, understand more, and crying out to Lord for help.
Who has done HSG in KK? who has a good doctor who is very experienced in blocked tubes? ANy recommendations?
Babykate - I think you are a brave woman indeed, and I agree with you - the doctor want to earn money and immediately asked me to do lap, but i want to do another stronger flushing and see how it goes. agree?