Hi everyone, my wife and I often have huge quarrel and a few times she want to give up on me, taking out her wedding ring and asking for divorce couple of time. Things normally cool down a little after sometime after I tried to savage the relationship, but I know she is really sick and tired of my attitude.
So what's wrong with me? well I'm pretty bad in planning for stuff, I always say I marry her is really because I love her, I apply flat with her is because I really want it too, and I also agreed to start a family with a child. But the issue is I always failed to plan for all this thing or not knowing how to plan for such.
So my wife felt very insecure with me and our future.
So to all the parents in the forum, can you advice me what are the things I should do or plan for if we want to have a child? ect.. cost and stuff. All I know is having a baby is expensive, so I told my wife that I will change line/job and get better pay and save up together as much as possible but to her is not enough to connivence her.
Thanks everyone
So what's wrong with me? well I'm pretty bad in planning for stuff, I always say I marry her is really because I love her, I apply flat with her is because I really want it too, and I also agreed to start a family with a child. But the issue is I always failed to plan for all this thing or not knowing how to plan for such.
So my wife felt very insecure with me and our future.
So to all the parents in the forum, can you advice me what are the things I should do or plan for if we want to have a child? ect.. cost and stuff. All I know is having a baby is expensive, so I told my wife that I will change line/job and get better pay and save up together as much as possible but to her is not enough to connivence her.
Thanks everyone