Blue_rabbit,
just how bad is your hubby's results? 1%?? Like wat hopeful told u, Choo's hubby also 1% and she striked the next cycle right after HSG! Let's not get depressed first, we dunno if KKH is indeed right in saying IUI would not work for u! U wanna get a 2nd opinion?? I think u shd! cos IVF is costly, not just financially, but emotionally draining too... u wanna tell us more abt your hubby's results?? My hubby's is also not very good, 3% only, then he always "ga-bra" everytime he collect his semen, this time the lab staff said he didn't collect enough semen, so the amt of good sperms used in my IUI was lower than the amt they normally used lor... But nonetheless we still went ahead with the IUI, aiya, ting1 tian1 you2 ming4 ba!
Just a thot, if your hubby's spermies are really that bad until cannot do IUI, then why would his spermies work under IVF??? Can they somehow do "repair" work for spermies under IVF???
I always thot only ladies with ovulation problems or with blocked tubes, need to do IVF, but u are fine right? Hmm... strange leh! Do try to talk your hubby into getting another opinion, how can he just rush head-on into IVF without finding out more?! So much $$ involved leh... or could it be he's also upset with his results so he is unwilling to do more tests on himself to avoid further possibly disappointing results??? Then u will have a lot of coaxing to do eh! Never mind, there's always a way out, chin up okie!!
Anyway, i want to thank all who showed me so much concern for my IUI, hee... whether i make it or not, i will surely share with u all at the first instance!
And just to prepare myself, i've told myself that IUI isn't that bad at all, so even if i have to do it again, i wouldn't mind!
Actually these few days had been really touching for me, so many people come and wish me good luck, u my dear frens, the hospital staff, the doctor, well well, it just makes me feel that it doesn't matter wat the outcome is, i'm happy as it is with so much concern showered on me!
So Hopeful, u also must remember that a lot of people are rooting for us, but wat really matters is not the outcome, is not whether we disappoint others or not, but in order to do justice to all the concern we've had, we must strive to be happy!! Aren't we so lucky to have so many dear frens?
Daisy,
i hope u will strike b4 u have to do your lapro, but if really must do lapro, be brave okie! I'll be cheering jia you for u, heehee! Btw, can u sms me with your name pls? Now i have to slowly collect back all my fren's contacts! And i think some have been lost forever liao, sigh...