Gbob: hope u dont feel offended by what i said.
I feel that if u let him go den don't feel angry about it or thk it's not fair or he should stay with u things like this.
Last time I also will like that, let him go but inside sibei buay song even when after a few days den usually will end up quarrelling. I always hope that he will ownself say don't want to go. But guys won't de. If u really feel that he wanna go and u choose to let him go den really really let him go lo.. It's not fair for him to get treatment like this.. I feel la..
I'm sure if u tell him u need his company, he will stay with you.
So now if I don't want him to go anywhere or do what, I'll tell him straight away. We are suppose to go Gold Coast convention in jun when I'm about 8 weeks, Gyane have clearance to go even spotting but I can't pass my own clearance so I ask hubby friend if he wanna go and purchase a ticket so that they 2 can go together. My ticket refund. My thinking is he worked so hard to clear these convention and if i cant go and he also dont go so not fair for him. I just ask him to buy things for me as present cuz i cant Go. sai nai abit and say if i go shopping in sg i can claim from him cuz i cant go gold coast.. lol.. Den he will also feel bad for leaving me in sg so he tried to anticipate me in what he is doing everyday. Take photos of what he eat and tell me where he went. He come back tell me lots of stories about what happen there. I feel he had fun there and makes me feel that i made the right choice by letting him go Gold Coast cuz he had fun he is happy and so am I.. =D
Don't make yourself feel so misery, and ur hubby too. Like when he come back u still buay song, he also Blurr Blurr, it's u who let me go yet come back wanna give me attitude.. Den also won't be good.. Just treat it as a last trip that he is ever going without you. =D haha.. Be happy den bb also will be happy. Jia you.. Don't keep thinking unhappy stuffs le.. Take this time as "Me & Baby" time!! Go shop for some bb stuffs.. Buy some bb clothes, unisex one lo.. Den when he come back sai nai tell ur hubby since u can't go den u go shopping for bb and can claim from him.. Haha.. Sai nai usually works.. Haha.. Well at least for me la.. =P
Just my 2 cents worth la.. Hope u don't feel offended by what I said.. No hard feelings.. Jia you hope u will feel better soon..