totorodino
Active Member
LOL. I'm so sleepy too.
Febie, during #1's time, I was supposed to do confinement at my mil's place, but then they don't like strangers in their house so i cant hire a confinement lady. In the end, my mom did confinement for me so both hb and me stayed at my parents place loh. After confinement, we continued to stay with my parents until my new house was ready (about 1.5yrs later), cos i was feeling very emotional (post-natal blues) either real or just an excuse, and insisted that I wanted to stay with my parents, so hb bo bian. In fact, if mil didnt say that they didnt like strangers in their house, we would have stayed with in laws until our new house was ready and #1 would have been under mil's care. PHEW! all works out to my advantage. now she complains that #1 not close to them.
maybe i can consider just staying at my parents' place without hb hahaha. but i think hb wont want to be left out of taking care of #1 and #2. He's quite hands-on.
Febie, during #1's time, I was supposed to do confinement at my mil's place, but then they don't like strangers in their house so i cant hire a confinement lady. In the end, my mom did confinement for me so both hb and me stayed at my parents place loh. After confinement, we continued to stay with my parents until my new house was ready (about 1.5yrs later), cos i was feeling very emotional (post-natal blues) either real or just an excuse, and insisted that I wanted to stay with my parents, so hb bo bian. In fact, if mil didnt say that they didnt like strangers in their house, we would have stayed with in laws until our new house was ready and #1 would have been under mil's care. PHEW! all works out to my advantage. now she complains that #1 not close to them.
maybe i can consider just staying at my parents' place without hb hahaha. but i think hb wont want to be left out of taking care of #1 and #2. He's quite hands-on.