lynn, you started to feel heavy at wk 14? that's really early! hmm... I'm also very small built, im only 41kg pre-pregnancy. but during #1's time, I only started to feel the weight of the bump at wk20 and beyond. Even now at wk 19, I still don't feel the weight of the baby yet that sometimes i forget im pregnant (all thanks to the sayonara nausea).
Kayliz, I havent bought a single thing for #2 either. I intend to reuse everything. If #2 turns out to be a girl, i think it's ok for girl to wear blue but the reverse is not true. haha. boys cannot wear pink. I wont be buying a twin stroller cos it's so enormous and hard to manage. I will likely manuca the baby and have elder one in the stroller. or if the elder one wants to be be manduca-ed, also can lar haha.
As for breastfeeding. I was on npl for 5 months. So i total breastfed for about 9 months. Don't have much extra to freeze. but the few times i did, I had to mix about 70% fresh/chilled ebm with 30% frozen ebm to cover the fishy smell.
Once i returned to work, supply dropped immediately and my boy rejected fm. stressed me out. in the end, i started mixing 1 scoop of FM to my ebm and slowly increase the scoops of FM until it was 100% fm. the day he drank 100% fm, i was sooooo relieved
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my supply dropped to 200ml a day and i completely stopped breastfeeding. Oh, i fully pumped from 3months onwards cos my boy couldnt get a full meal from each latch and took more than an hour to complete latching, in the end, i just gave up latching. on hindsight, quite glad i pumped cos alot of my friends had difficulties weaning their babies off the breast.
not sure for #2, should i re-attempt latching fully, or straight away pump fully. hmm. latching will be more convenient but i like the routine and certainty of pumping. hahaha.