Maid
Hiaz I also had probs with my maid the last time. I got her to help MIL when I was returning to work. And with people to supervise her, also got probs.
My ex-maid was the very forgetful type. Slow, nvm.. I understand that not everyone is as 'efficient' as we are used to in Singapore, with our crazy pace of life. But she keeps forgetting to do things, or forgetting not to do things. But her biggest fault is she disobeyed instructions lor.
Eg my MIL told her not to bring my boy downstairs in the pram while she's trying to wheel him to nap. She actually brought him downstairs then my MIL panicked coz couldn't find her. My MIL also silly lah. Asked her what happens if she gets lost. She replied that she won't get lost. If I were MIL, I'd just tell her I say no means no.
Then she likes to take over the mummy. When we were playin with my son, she likes to interrupt. Then all sorts of work don't get done, coz she cannot remember them. By the time I remind her, it's too late. Nvr focus on her work. Keeps doing frivolous things like take my MIL's cookery book, wanna try cooking the dishes at home.
The last straw was when I saw her try to bring an opened pack of jelly powder home. I told her no when she kept saying thst SHE wants to make something. The next morning, I saw her washing bananas, cleaning the countertop like mad. She said we were infested with ants. Finally I saw that stupid pack of jelly powder on my counter! I told her I already told her she cannot bring it back. She has lots of 'reasons' like Popo gave it to her, she asked Popo already n she said ok, she will make it, not me... I finally interrupted her & said this is my hse, ask me on top of asking Popo. She gave me this black face, & said she'll throw it away in a very buaysong tone. I complained to Hubs & he said send her back.
Actually 1 mth before that, Hubs already gave her a serious talking-to. Every mth, I give her an 'appraisal interview' to tell her what she needs to improve. She was with us for 6 mths, & no improvement one lor. Finally we gave up.