ryan_mummy
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Jul: yes. shape like the pink poncho. only sew 1 side. when fold into half.
talking abt screaming mother - i used to be 1. then i read more e-books or info on internet n realized that screaming creates war between parent n child. unless necessary, voice should not be louder than usual. so now i call #1 by name max 3 times no response i'll whip out the cane.
Once he see it, he'll say YES?? then i can talk to him or give instructions. dun have to whack. cause he already know the impact of it.
Laughing Gas
during my whole induction, i was clutching bedrails whenever pain came. did the standard breathing and tolerated. refused all sorts of jabs or gas. i heard from a fellow friend that i didn't succeed was cause baby not actually due.
so this time, i'm having very high hopes on vbac. only obstacle now is placenta.
smilez: no lah! i don't sew. i like tailor made clothes.. my hb used to have tailor made shirts n me, dresses b4 #1 was born. then no more extravagance.. so all store bought. cheongsam i wanted to tailor cause outside sold dun suit my size.
i m ball shaped but flat butt then boobs abit bigger than usual. so hard to find fitting cheongsam since it has to be body hugging.
cheap also.. buy material then tailor total dun cost more than $80. outside u get nice cheongsam with lace already at least $100..
Birth Plan
As mentioned earlier, i intend to do fully natural. will play music to hypnotize myself *hopefully it works*
unless placenta don't cooperate.. then need c-sec, i will choose epidural.
Washing Machine
i m using Toshiba. usually i spin 9mins hang in the house w/o rain w/o sun, 24hrs will do.
if i use the 3hr spin dry option, then even raining it'll be dry in 8hrs or so. meaning overnight can liao.
I intend to buy dryer but hb not keen say consume alot electricity. so i m crossing my fingers on the sky. otherwise i need to buy more bamboos or clothes rack liao.. my house currently 5ppl + baby i dunno 7 days a week enough to share laundry time or not..
Recently everyday also rain. or sky dark. i heck care just do laundry. so hard to plan!
I ate my prepared lunch *sandwich* already.. too hungry.. waiting for 12noon to go buy lunch again. haha
Cindy: many gynaes will say baby size doesn't equate to birth plan since many moms deliver 4kg< babies naturally too. depends on willpower n tolerance level and of course majorly, your own body. if cervix open fully, baby head down, all it takes is strength n endurance.
if body don't cooperate, then no matter what u do also no use.
Like I said, i tolerated 2.5days of labour pain. cervix not open, gynae also say bobian. so u muz exercise ur cervix. i told hb to help me *exercise* cervix 2x a week after 8mths. hopefully it is flexible enough to open quickly then.
talking abt screaming mother - i used to be 1. then i read more e-books or info on internet n realized that screaming creates war between parent n child. unless necessary, voice should not be louder than usual. so now i call #1 by name max 3 times no response i'll whip out the cane.
Once he see it, he'll say YES?? then i can talk to him or give instructions. dun have to whack. cause he already know the impact of it.
Laughing Gas
during my whole induction, i was clutching bedrails whenever pain came. did the standard breathing and tolerated. refused all sorts of jabs or gas. i heard from a fellow friend that i didn't succeed was cause baby not actually due.
so this time, i'm having very high hopes on vbac. only obstacle now is placenta.
smilez: no lah! i don't sew. i like tailor made clothes.. my hb used to have tailor made shirts n me, dresses b4 #1 was born. then no more extravagance.. so all store bought. cheongsam i wanted to tailor cause outside sold dun suit my size.
i m ball shaped but flat butt then boobs abit bigger than usual. so hard to find fitting cheongsam since it has to be body hugging.
cheap also.. buy material then tailor total dun cost more than $80. outside u get nice cheongsam with lace already at least $100..
Birth Plan
As mentioned earlier, i intend to do fully natural. will play music to hypnotize myself *hopefully it works*
unless placenta don't cooperate.. then need c-sec, i will choose epidural.
Washing Machine
i m using Toshiba. usually i spin 9mins hang in the house w/o rain w/o sun, 24hrs will do.
if i use the 3hr spin dry option, then even raining it'll be dry in 8hrs or so. meaning overnight can liao.
I intend to buy dryer but hb not keen say consume alot electricity. so i m crossing my fingers on the sky. otherwise i need to buy more bamboos or clothes rack liao.. my house currently 5ppl + baby i dunno 7 days a week enough to share laundry time or not..
Recently everyday also rain. or sky dark. i heck care just do laundry. so hard to plan!
I ate my prepared lunch *sandwich* already.. too hungry.. waiting for 12noon to go buy lunch again. haha
Cindy: many gynaes will say baby size doesn't equate to birth plan since many moms deliver 4kg< babies naturally too. depends on willpower n tolerance level and of course majorly, your own body. if cervix open fully, baby head down, all it takes is strength n endurance.
if body don't cooperate, then no matter what u do also no use.
Like I said, i tolerated 2.5days of labour pain. cervix not open, gynae also say bobian. so u muz exercise ur cervix. i told hb to help me *exercise* cervix 2x a week after 8mths. hopefully it is flexible enough to open quickly then.
