michelle: Don't stress too much. Will affect baby too. I think I will go crazy if my PIL is like that. Very very stressful to have baby, to carry the baby in the womb, to give birth, still got so much external factor that is not within our control. I hope they will cut you some slack. Stay strong for baby. Jia You.
Cool down first, and don't think about it now. Most important, care for yourself, your baby now. Any other factors, just clear it off your mind. The best is to give them "bo chap" answers when they ask u boy or girl.