(2012/03) Mar 2012


Usually edd date we count as 1st day of our last menses ? But smtimes I went scanning my edd always different seems base on bb size.
How to add in the list?
 
mich: have a talk to ur hubby..try to ask him stand by u..even though they are his parents..but smtimes too much..must show that you both are not happy...
since i knw my NT scan no good..i alrdy asked my hubby to call my pil stop calling me. Mayb is easier to say lah coz my pil lives in msia..so i dun get to see them infact for 3yrs liao..keke
 
Sarah hard lor... that time when i give birth i got tell my hubby mil is too much already then my hubby only say this.... u care ur feeling but do u care my feeling when mil say him.... so how i going to do... bear all the way lor.... unless i really got a place to go that pil no need to come.... cause i not at home....
 
Mich: wats wrong with his mum say him?? shld b use to it liao since he is young is his mum is the naggy type..keke..u staying with ur pil ah?
 
michelle: Don't stress too much. Will affect baby too. I think I will go crazy if my PIL is like that. Very very stressful to have baby, to carry the baby in the womb, to give birth, still got so much external factor that is not within our control. I hope they will cut you some slack. Stay strong for baby. Jia You.

Cool down first, and don't think about it now. Most important, care for yourself, your baby now. Any other factors, just clear it off your mind. The best is to give them "bo chap" answers when they ask u boy or girl.
 
mich: anyway diff family got diff problems..i just hope u can be a happy mummy throughout this pregnancy..take care

for the mar 12 mummies sheet..what does status mean? FTWM?
 
Sarah : no he cannot tanhan his mum nagging de when his mum nagging he will leave home de... but when i give birth pil come... so when his mum nag him he need to go where no place to go liao ma.... got a time i say ma.. baby need to sleep de.... why u keep want to wake baby up... then mil complaint to my hubby lor.... then i tell my hubby ur mum really no brain lei... baby need lots of sleep lei... why want to wake baby up de.... dont understant ur mum thinking..... then my hubby say what she want to do let her do ba.... wow lao lei.... can like that meh....
so after that what mil doing i only bear to my heart pity my princess... till a day my hubby no choice liar to them i not at home..... but i think mil know why too... cause i tell my mum to tell mil that i want to go my nanny place to stay cause i cannot tanhan her......
 
Twins Happiness : ya i try not to stress... as gynea also tell me try to be happy then i wont feel ms so easy...... when i was down suddenly my hubby say want boy.... har..... it ok.... i do my best and pray hard.... even i know is girl or boy i wont let my pil know maybe even my hubby i also dont let him know.... har... do this way ok de ba... feel bad to do also....
 
Sarah ya not staying with them... but they wont let us know when they come de... reach liao call ask us to open the door.... got a time she call then i bf with princess she cannot wait... she nagging outside the door till the neighbour call me too... wow phengz.......
 
Michelle: your Hubby want boy ar? Ask him to ask himself Loh. Sperm from him, u can't control too. Give him a book on the XX and XY chromosome. Must counsel him and his parents. Very ignorant leh...
 
Mich: realli ah?? too much leh..if me..i dun open the door..dun care! keke..i knw is bad to treat old ppl like dat but we are human aso loh..doesnt mean old ppl are wiser...u still got a long way to go...u must hang on..jia you!
 
Twin: ya u r right! we only contribute the egg loh..their sperms is the one to decide boy or gal!
My mum also having 3 gals..im #3 and duno y last time ppl like to give away if they had too many gals..what's wrong with gal?
 
Last time my uncle (dad's younger brother) also ask me to have more kids then let my sister take care coz my sis got no kids...siao lor...i told my mom if like that i rather have just 1 kid to myself.
 
yes i want to jia you.... sarah u chinese..... dont know why still got this old fashion people lei.... i tot my friend mil is worse de... now mine even more worse than her... har....

Twins Happiness : at first he say no matter girl or boy he ok... suddenly he say this to me i also shocked but i got tell him anyway i feel this is a girl lor... then he keep quiet....
 
mich: yes mich im chinese..my hub aso chinese but msian..so i dun get to see my PIL and i dun get to see them 3yrs liao..keke coz i gave a reason to them..their house is dirty..i got skin allergy..haha..me so bad.
My PIL nv say anything aso..mayb they rely on my hub monthly allowances keke..both them are much younger than my parents but not working..but my dad alrdy 70yrs old and stil mending his hardware shop..i heartpain for him. Overall i can say my both sides of parents are those bo chup and nice parents lah.
 
Sarah: Last time, olden days many people got traditional thinking. Boys will help carry their ashes and tablets when they die. But they never think for the next few decades, is their son doing their duty or their daughter give them pocket$? My mum also gave birth to 3 girls. And my younger sis almost given to my Gugu. Luckily my mum stay firm and we are glad that she stay strong. Daughters now can support themselves, give parents allowance, help their spouse and even take care of their kids. Dun underestimate us hor...
 
haha i agree.... twins happiness cause even mil also say my hubby no use de..... then my hubby still blur blur respect her.... no choice he say no matter what she is his mum... then i just keep quiet dont want to give much comment.... i will jia you.... i dont care girl or boy i wont give..... if they want ask their daughter give birth give big brother ba..... see how their daughter feel.....
 
Twin: u r right...my sisters n i stay strong with our parents..whereas my bro in law and even my husband like nv reali go see their parents one de leh..i always see my bro in law ard in my parents hse..keke..i dun wan go misa then my hub aso lazy to go himslf so he aso nv see his parents for 3yrs liao...keke
 
mich: when is ur edd? if u need support aft u give birth to prevent ur mil nag or take away..call me lah, i go hosp find u..my edd is 20 mar 2012..if u give birth b4 me.
 
Thank u, Zelda, daisy, Chinny. My husband is v worried. Since I pregnant, I've been taking taxi almost all the time. It costs me a bomb as always fall in peak hr rate to & from office. Now I thought I could try public transport as I am now in second trimester. Then, the doc said very low placenta n makes my husband to b more worried. My hubby asked me to go bac straight home n take taxi.
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hopefully, placenta mov up in next month check. Btw, u guys wear lipstick & lotion? I wanted to but I'm afraid the chemical inside. Didnt wear any lotion Nor lipstick since I'm pregnant. Go to office with plane & pale face. Do you Know or wear any lipstick which is ok for preg mom? Can u share me the band name?
 
mich: bukit batok so far ah..u wrking ? 21 mar ah..keke then mayb i give birth 1st le..unless we same hosp..mine mt e and i doubt urs is the same..seldom see any1 mt e.

mable: u still can wear lipstick and i think any brand is fine..dun worry all are quite safe..as for lotion..what u mean? lotion to apply where?
 
mabel - i also always take taxi if i'm going out cos hubby worry the knock n push in public transport ..

dont worry too much , just rest as much as u can and dont lift heavy things will do ..

i still apply lotion as my skin is very dry so to keep abit moist but i donno whether is ok for preg not.. tink is fine? maybe can ask gynae next time wen u visit ?

rest well !! =)
 
mabel: for face lotion i guess shld b fine as long as no retinol A contain..anything with retinol A is best to avoid even my gynae told me that. During preg, we are very prompt to get dark pigmentations or freckles...u can start using whitening ptds and sunblock is a must.
 
mich: u mean today? today cannot but other day can arr..marine sq very near me ah..my hse dwnstair mrt station mountbatten...4th stop only.hehe
 
Sarah: what is whitening ptd? Before pregnant, I use estee lauder. As for SPF, I don't know which one I should use. I got H2O SPF. Don't know can mix on the face or not with two different especially while I'm pregnant. Which lipstick u use? I'm afraid there will be some lead inside. Sarah: I mean face lotion
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. I am a lazy girl to apply lotion other than face
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. Only when my mood is good, then I apply body lotion. Now being pregnant, all my body becomes natural smell I can't wear any perfume . Sensitive nose. Daisy: this is my first pregnancy and very expensive pregnancy. Unpaid leaves&taxi fares left only half of my pay
 
Mich: added liao..u go see..marina sq where the beef place? not all beef i eat..some got smell one leh..keke but steak is fine and i aso like sukiyaki beef, beef hofun but this time sukiyaki beef cant dip in raw egg..keke. drooling liao..and i still waiting for my hub go eat but kallang leisure park no steak..zzz..going to catch Johnny English later coz they said very funny..hope can cheer me up..was crying n crying these few days liao..abit abit will upset..
 
mabel: those whitening face lotion..like olay they have a good one now in green colour. currently im using skII whitening ptds like serum n cream for night time and daytime i use those light weight moisturiser..any sunblock is fine depend ur skin type..if u very oily skin go for oil free ptds..anything u can ask me..i used to wrk beautyline for many years..keke..i love to explore diff types of brand.
 
Michelle : ai ya ... u edd might early ah ... i thought we can say hi to each other .... LOL ... mine so far no change yet ... not sure further down the road ...

Ladies : ur stomach side have any mild cramps like expanding (type of feeling) ? today my right side abit (dont know cramps or aching lei) ... just feel like muscles pulling .... sorry dont really know how to describe the feeling ....
 
carice, so far i dont have any stomach cramp or leg cramp. just that my stomach feels like when ur trying to blow a balloon that is already huge. like going to explode.
 
bc : hahaha ... i only today have this feeling ... on the right like muscle is pulling ... i suspect is exploding any time ... so better ask around lor ... i v blur de ... like my big business problem ... i can tell gynae cramp ... end up intestine problem ... think back also quite silly ...lol
 
Carice : maybe i know what u trying to say it normal de... unless super pain then u go to see ur gynea or below got red red then better see liao..... haha... Carice cause my #1 i early for 9days.... this gynea say see how..... might be early than 21 mar lor need to see baby when want to come out... plus if too big sure must early liao..... i hope not that early like 38 haha.... cause my #1 false alarm at 8 mar lor.... but end up is food poisioning..... that y i say i stay TMC before..... but give birth at MA at end Apr cause dont like TMC service lor.......
 
My cramps is those pulling types like gastric pain but was lower abdomen. Went to scan so far nothing but now on hormones pills to stable my uterus.
Mich: let's go one day. No movie for me tonite Coz fully booked.
Bc: me too everyday nutin to do at Hm so I mop floor loh even though doc said dun but I stil slowly mop.
 


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