kimifin> yeah me staying wif my parents now. sibings all married and moved out. so i am happy!
J2010T> lucky my hb is ok wif 1 kid. i m getting old liao, too dangerous to hv kids. somemore we are not staying together, tough lor. i uses a lot of 'logical' excuses to persuade him. hehe...
anyway for our case, its no choice.
wendy> honestly speaking, its filial tat we shd stay and take care of our PIL. but conflict tends to occur after awhile. instead of a good r/s wif them initially may turn out to be quite uncomfortable. hb or kids may be sandwiched in between. i rather maintain a good r/s from e very beginning to end. this way, no1 will suffer.
Audrey> i jokingly tell my hb i wanted a car as baby bonus but his first and immediate word is he cant afford. "i will give you a gun and you go rob e bank", then i replied, " i will rob his bank". hahaha....
modisch> oh my gosh, poor gal, be strong ok. dun think so negatively now.
modisch> btw if choose 1 bedder in tmc, it can use medisave right??
wendy> me too. i expect my hb to pay most of e stuff. not sure how it is like if our hse is here. last time i used to go out with this guy who woos me. my gosh, he is so stingy. bread also eat half and save half for e pm.i immediately avoid him after tat. cannot tahan.
Px22> oh mine, really?? but i cant reject my hb totally since he grew up w/o a dad. i stay ard 15mins walks to my parents, so i m happy. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] regarding e walk-in wardrobe, i tot can make it so obvious tat there is no extra room for my MIL. sigh sigh! gambling is e worst thing tat can happen. better not let this affect your family.
cary / wendy> if i drink soda or cold drinks (which i m used to it before pregnant), my mum will nag me from day to night. so sometimes i hv to do it secretly.
suying> i hv e same pain as you..like gastric pain yesterday night. it lasted for hours. i m so scared tat i just lie on bed unmoved.