Sharlin,
Baby gender shouldn't play a part in parenthood leh.. Now, my hubby does everything for our girl.. Bathe, change diapers, play with her, rock her to sleep etc.. I encourage him also cos they bond better the more time they spend together, best if away from me.. So when #2 comes out, we will split even duties on his off days & when #1 is not at cc.. On days like that, 1 parent take 1 child loh.. No choice.. I let hubby choose, he prefer #1 so he has to make her like him first mah.. xD
Fungfung,
I donated #1's cord blood.. Going to donate #2's also..
If your pump is Mini Electric, be prepared for the noise.. Hope it's not la..
I'm using avent steriliser.. Big & easy! I recently bought digital de but i still prefer the electric one..