Thanks BBdust and Orangey for the tips. I cng sim oredi...read read lor..im stating facts la...sigh...yday couldnt sleep well.
Orangey - this part is scary..tats exactly wat i did..nw retribution liao...hahaha
"On the recipient's computer, one of the following occurs:
If the recipient opens the recall message first, the original message is deleted, and the recipient is informed that you, the sender, deleted the message from his or her mailbox.
If the recipient opens the original message first, the recall fails, and both the old and new messages are available.
Note If the original message is marked as read (viewing in the Reading Pane doesn't constitute reading in this scenario) when the recall message is processed, the recipient is informed that you, the sender, want to delete the message, but the message remains in the recipient's Outlook folder."