Re: Feed amount
think I will give her 150 for these 2 weeks , then 180after that. Cos even if I go by gradual increase, it's also about the same amount.
Good thing is that she wasted more FM than EBM.
Re: PIL
I also have things to rant about my MIL. She likes to give my older girl sweets, which I hardly give. Cos I worry that when she gets older, she may get hurt because some strangers offer her sweets. I don't mind if she gets clothes for her, though almost all the clothes she buys are red in colour (my girl looks like walking AP). So those red red clothes I only let my girl wear when we go to PILs' place.
Now she tries new tricks - give money. Last week, during our visit there, I returned her the money. She said that it was for my girl to buy sweets. I mean, does a 2 year old girl needs $10 to buy sweets?
I told her that I want my girl to learn the right things, or she will think that money is easy to come by. If she wants to give money, save it for her birthday. In my heart, what I wanted to say is I may be a SAHM, but I have money to spend on my daughters.
I know she is unhappy that I am not working. Cos my hubby mentioned to them before that we are serving some debts. My MIL even asked my mum in the face why I am not working since we have debts to pay off.
I mean, if you have issues with my work status, take it up with me or my hubby. My hubby agrees to the arrangement, that's why I stop working. My hubby says he will pay for my shopping, so I go shopping lor. If you have issues, ask your son lar! Anyway, it's his job to take care of me, while I take care of his children. Otherwise he takes care of the children and I go work lor. Will she be proud of this arrangement that makes her son look like a kept man?