Sigh it's a very long story. The quarrel started off when my hubby was saying why his bro not contributing as much as him for his mum. Then the mum got angry coz his bro was part time studying and working at the same time. To me, i dun think it's a big deal, coz i have been there, done that before. I also went through what he had to get my own degree with my own money and i still contribute to household chores. So i never think what his bro did was a big thing.
Anyway the quarrel started off that way. Then it somehow got linked to me. Saying that his bro clothes are all washed at his gf's place as he stayed over more often and they did not have a dog for his mum to take care. Most imptly, his gf is very able to fit in the role as a wife. She then shouted at him crying, "I AM WORRIED ABOUT YOU" X 5times.
Girls, tell me what is she insinuating? All the time during the quarrel, i was hiding in the room with my beloved doggie who was under the bed. When he came in banging hard at the door after she shouted those words, i asked him to cool down and dun behave this way to his mum. To my disappointment, he actually told me "I can't convinced my mum that you can take care of me!" in his frustrating tone.
My threshold reached. Burst! One thing i must admit is i do not do housework on own will most of the time. But i am very sure that if i have a house of my own, i would do what i can to make it a house. His house is simply NOT my house! Apparently, the ability to take care of him was gauged with the baseline of housework. I got so work out that i wanted to leave the house with my dog for a breather. I'm totally disappointed with what he said more than what his mum said. I do not need him to convince. I just need him to believe!
While preparing to get out of the house, he kept insisting that we shld talk. I profusely refused coz there is no point. His mum interferred and make a sacarstic remark of "You ARE always like that" I'm really bursting! I stared back at both of them and asked "All of you have the rights to be angry and i do not have?" I stormed all the way towards the gate. My hubby held on to me followed by his mum giving me a hug and apologise. Seriously, what's the hug for?? I rejected all those and still insisted to bring the dog out for a walk. They refused to let go. So i started jumping around and cry. His mum cried too. And he cried too.
I really wonder if the mum's actions were out of worried for the baby or do not want her son to trapped in between. Seriously, i started to doubt marriage. What's the point?