vodkarib
if u intend to pursue TBFG, do tell urself that U WILL HAVE MORE THAN ENOUGH MILK for your baby from now on. Coz if ur mindset is alrdy wrong or not as determined right fr the start, i can tell u that u are alrdy on the way to failure. But wif the correct & +ve mindset, u will def succeed. I am speaking fr experience. While I was in my last trimester, I read up on bfg books and kept patting my tummy every now and then to my son tt i am intending to TBF him and I will make it a success. But i need him to latch well and cooperate with me so that we will be successful. it might sound so silly to u now but I really felt coz tt bond was established when he was in my tummy, he latched on well fr the day he was borned and there was no one to guide me in the hospital. Thou there were nurses to check on me every now and then, i felt confident coz there was no pain when he latched on then.
And since i am so afraid that the CL/MIL will secretly give baby FM, i did not even buy anything nor get any free samples fr the hospital to standby so they hv nothing to feed the baby. It might sound mean but which mother would wanna starve her baby? And i really wanna make it a success. If worst comes to worst, i dun believe we cant get the FM easily in SG.
As for milk bottles, yes u can still go ahead to get new ones but for me, its brand new and intact till i intend to introduce the bottles to my son when he was 3+wks old. I bought sizes like 120ml/150ml x 4 to start off. coz they dun drink that much in the initial stage.
Tt time when i delivered in 2006, no such thing as BPA bottles yet so din hv a choice. but for this time round, i am not intending to specially get such bottles as well. I use pigeon milk bottles only. tried a few brands like avent, NUK etc but my son takes well to pigeon's peristaltic teats. so for teats, i advise u not to get too many of the same brands. need to see which one baby can adapt to it.
juz a note tt though i use avent manual pump to express milk, i transf them into pigeon ones to feed my son. a bit of extra work but when u get used to it, its really not a hassle anymore.
Jia you, you will succeed if u put ur heart to it! And most importantly, inform ur hb of ur intentions and tells him that when everyone else discourage u in the 1st few days, he is supposed to stand by you and shoot them all down wif their -ve comments.
i made sure my hb got my msg clear and he would be my "guard" when the time comes. wif his encouragement and support, it will be a success!