enli, you must have enough sleep at nite, or else you will be very weak like me. I din really rest well the past 8 days until my mum came. My mil 'geh geh' want to do my confinement and dun allow us to engage confinement lady. end up i am the one who suffer. she doesn't know how to cook confinement food. she chim cai cook and expect me to chim cai eat. PLEASE, I AM ON confinement. CANNOT CHIN CAI. end up I have no choice have to call my mum to come from malaysia, and my mil moved out immediately. She complaint said i so yim zin, this dun eat that dun eat. I am very small appetite, so i eat very little, and dun force me to. those food she cooked not suitable for confinement how to eat!!! She complaint said my hubby dun let her take care of the BB, How can we let her take care of the BB if she is so careless. She can talk over the handphone so loud next to the BB, when halfway preparing to bath the BB, she can still made a short phone call to her fren just to tell her fren the BB english name while i was carrying the BB waiting to be bath and drink milk. I understand she is very happy with the grandchild, but she is really not suitable in helping me for the confinement and yet insist to help us, end up give us trouble. Somemore she dare to claim last time she chin cai eat also (but she has confinement lady cooked for her). After my mum came, i feel very much comfortable, as my mum helps me to bathed,taking care of bb at night, both me and my hb can sleep well now. And my mum cooks confinement food that i eat....feel relief. And sorry I dun care my mil feeling now (+my sil who also doesn't like my mum to come over, who care!!!!)
