marie, yeah i can imagine that delicate feeling, i've been "brainwashing" him already, when mummy needs to go to hospital in april, and popo doesnt need to work, she'll come and stay here. If not, we've to leave you at ah mah's house. Then he'll repeat this on and off when he remembers and say, daddy will bring me to hospital to visit you and baby, hahah we shall see......