Hi bargainhunter3,
Quite a complete list that you have... but just some comments from my experience with my #1:
For Mummy,
1) Maternity Sanitary Padding - <font color="0000ff">normal super long night safe pads are good enough</font>.
2) Disposable Panty
3) Home slipper - <font color="0000ff">er... is this necessary?</font>
4) Dry Shampoo - <font color="0000ff">only if you follow the strict confinement rules. For me, I wash my hair every alternate days with normal shampoo and very warm water</font>.
5) Tea bag for bathing (don't know what it call hehe) - <font color="0000ff">these are herbal bags which you are supposed to pre-boil and use as bathing water. Can get from Chinese medicine hall</font>
6) Milk pump
7) Nursing pads - <font color="0000ff">Quite important is you want to BF. Once the milk comes in, the breasts will leak quite a bit.</font>
8) Bai mi jiu (in chinese) - some mummy may not use this
For Baby,
1) Milk bottles
2) Breast milk storage bottles
3) Cotton wool - <font color="0000ff">for washing newborns face with cool boiled water</font>.
4) Powder applier - <font color="0000ff">see baby poweder below</font>
5) Baby clothes, socks, gloves & caps.
6) Wet Tissue - <font color="0000ff">stock up on this. It's very useful for cleaning poo and all sorts of baby related spills</font>
7) Diapers
8) Nappy cloths - <font color="0000ff">I only have 1 few pieces, mainly for wrapping the baby, lining beds etc. Not used as nappies. I find cloth diapers as nappies really impractical especially in the first few months. You don't want to use this when baby pees / poos at least 5-8 times a day for the fist 2 or 3 months.</font>
9) Bathing Mat
10) Head to toe shower gel
11) sound detecter (some dun need)
12) Pacifier - <font color="0000ff">don't buy and tempt yourself into using it. Why start baby on this habit if you can prevent. Though I must it's a sanity savious during times when baby is crying non-stop and have exhausted all sorts of methods of pacifying him/her. But by starting baby on it, you'll have to worry about how to wean him'her off later.</font>
13) Pillow & bolster - <font color="0000ff">not necessary for 1st few months. Though Babysafe has a tiny pillow that's contoured that helps to prevent baby's head from being misshapened.</font>
14) Blanket - <font color="0000ff">Not necessary, at least for first few months. In fact, it may be dangerous for fear of suffocation. Just use swaddles and/or keep your baby warm with long sleeves shirt/pants</font>
15) Insulator double pouch
16) Milk bottles detergent
17) Bottle brush
18) Hot water container
19) Baby clothes detergent
20) Baby boucinetten
21) Baby lotion
22) Baby powder - <font color="0000ff">read somewhere that it's not good for baby's nose as they may inhale the powder. Better to use lotion \ diaper rash cream. I did not use powder at all for my boy</font>.
23) Towel
24) Potty
25) Milk powder (if no breast feed)
26) Baby bottle sterilizer