Pei,
I am using Super Shields on Ameda pump, no problem at all. In fact, I was initially using only the handsfree kit and I realised that as I pumped, there was quite a lot of leakage unless I sat real straight up. Bought a new set of super shields from ebay, and it was much cheaper than buying via the mumsfairy website. Maybe you wanna post in the "Want to Buy" section? Some mummies may wanna let go of theirs. With the super shields, there is hardly any leakage and you can lean back and relax hee...
I am not sure whether super shields help in relieving engorgement cos I will massage as I pump, main reason I got these is cos I was real fed up with the leakage and it was so tiring to have to sit straight all the time!
Cia,
Personally I feel that kids do adapt very quickly, initially they will cringe at change in routine or environment, soon they will get used to it already. If your mum really doesn't wish to help you take care of #2, your plan may be the best way out. Anyway you can finally stay at your own place right? If it's me, I will choose this! Moreover as your kids grow, you need bigger space too rather than lodging at your mum's place. I think the elderly sometimes prefer a little freedom and own time as well, so if they really don't wish to help, we just find out own way out, definitely feasible.
Corine's Mum,
I am teaching in a primary school hehe... will PM you my school name k cos I am not sure who's reading here! =p
Actually saw my school's name in one of the threads here asking about P1 registration!
Generally my school students' profiles are quite different from the neighbourhood schools cos quite a number don't stay nearby and generally they come from financially ok or well-off families. Kids these days mostly speak English at home so it's difficult to teach them lor!
Anyway, do try to carry your baby often, and don't let your maid do it most or all the time. My maid loves my girl and likes to carry her often and I have to keep telling her to put her down once she is pacified! Don't wanna my bb to grow too attached to maid and also develop the bad habit of wanting to be carried all the time! Actually babies do recognise the smell of their mummies cos when my girl cries, my hubby takes a longer time to pacify her and once I took over, she stops almost immediately. Till my hubby got jealous and joked that she is a useless daughter hahaha... Now that I am on ML, I try to be the primary caregiver for my girl, my family maid mainly comes over during daytime to help out in the chores. Try to spend more time with your girl and I think they are starting to recognise faces now.
The US outing is so tempting and I really wanna go! But hubby gonna leave SG soon so he's back early in the afternoons, think will try to join gatherings next month.