pinkie pirate: oh...for me, i guess as long as i get to eat proper food & recover back my health asap & bb's being fed & looked after well...housework, i can get my hubby to do...actually i do pity the CL cos it's CNY & imagine, she has to be away from her family & chinese believe when women just given birth, we're very "dirty"...imagine they're willing to come look after us during this "dirty" period & worse! during CNY.... do feel bad for them...