(2008/10) Oct 2008
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wly72
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Forest
I hv a MIM sling. bought it during a bb fair. Used only for a month, but was tiring for me cuz my gal was 4.3kg when she was born. the weight of bb lies on 1 shoulder.
then tried many other brands, find ergo the best cuz was like a haversack and very comfortable for me and my gal cuz she SITS in it, not hang on the crotch like other carriers.
but now that im pregnant with no.2 cant use it anymore cuz the weight on my tummy. so i use sling now, no choice cuz my gal doesnt want to sit in stroller and too heavy to carry on arm everyday
guess for carriers, depends on different mummies. what works for others, may not really work for you.
I hv a MIM sling. bought it during a bb fair. Used only for a month, but was tiring for me cuz my gal was 4.3kg when she was born. the weight of bb lies on 1 shoulder.
then tried many other brands, find ergo the best cuz was like a haversack and very comfortable for me and my gal cuz she SITS in it, not hang on the crotch like other carriers.
but now that im pregnant with no.2 cant use it anymore cuz the weight on my tummy. so i use sling now, no choice cuz my gal doesnt want to sit in stroller and too heavy to carry on arm everyday
guess for carriers, depends on different mummies. what works for others, may not really work for you.
wly72
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Trace
i used to hv alot probs with my intruding ils too (though we dont live together like you), esp mil and sil when I was pregnant with no 1, they were always telling me what to do etc. I was very miserable and upset and cried alot. and my hub wasnt very supportive at all. he was either too weak to tell them off and or always siding them cuz they are very close.
now with no 2, i juz cant bother with their comments anymore, although i still get upset once in a while. i tried not to talk to them too much these days although they are always telling how i should raise my girl and what to do with no 2. as for my hub, dont care about him anymore cuz im strong now enough to stand up for myself and my girl.
We all mummies hv to be strong, take this as an exercise for the future.
Be strong.
i used to hv alot probs with my intruding ils too (though we dont live together like you), esp mil and sil when I was pregnant with no 1, they were always telling me what to do etc. I was very miserable and upset and cried alot. and my hub wasnt very supportive at all. he was either too weak to tell them off and or always siding them cuz they are very close.
now with no 2, i juz cant bother with their comments anymore, although i still get upset once in a while. i tried not to talk to them too much these days although they are always telling how i should raise my girl and what to do with no 2. as for my hub, dont care about him anymore cuz im strong now enough to stand up for myself and my girl.
We all mummies hv to be strong, take this as an exercise for the future.
Be strong.
enya,
they always give brainless suggestion. n this time round they quarrelled becos of the SIL staying with me..stupid! no one dares to call my hubby n called mi instead..y? bcos i m weaker! n they can bully me! so gd loh..nw my hubby wanna step in to say something, this will really shut their mouth up!
they always give brainless suggestion. n this time round they quarrelled becos of the SIL staying with me..stupid! no one dares to call my hubby n called mi instead..y? bcos i m weaker! n they can bully me! so gd loh..nw my hubby wanna step in to say something, this will really shut their mouth up!
pig_pig
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<font color="aa00aa">Someone was looking for a Ergo Carrier on the other day, right? There is this mummy selling a brandnew one here:
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/449183/1458281.html?1212490167
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http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/449183/1458281.html?1212490167
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Enya,
thanks for the advise... im thinking of getting an Ergo Carrier already.. cos' that will suit my hubby very well... guess, like u said.. must really try it out and see what suits us most.. thanks!!
Trace,
Hugz... u really seem to be having a hard time.. just rem to stay cool, and be happy for bb and yourself ya!!
thanks for the advise... im thinking of getting an Ergo Carrier already.. cos' that will suit my hubby very well... guess, like u said.. must really try it out and see what suits us most.. thanks!!
Trace,
Hugz... u really seem to be having a hard time.. just rem to stay cool, and be happy for bb and yourself ya!!
Rachel's Mummy,
i had a pretty good one.. but i drank so much.. 1 cup of milo and a glass of tomato cum green apple juice... feeling soooo sleepy now!!! *HELP*!!!
TraCe,
i was recommended 1 by my hubby's colleagues.. i tot u were the one who found 1 thru motherhood magazine? or am i forgetful again??
i had a pretty good one.. but i drank so much.. 1 cup of milo and a glass of tomato cum green apple juice... feeling soooo sleepy now!!! *HELP*!!!
TraCe,
i was recommended 1 by my hubby's colleagues.. i tot u were the one who found 1 thru motherhood magazine? or am i forgetful again??
eternitystar
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<font color="0000ff">Icylemon,
Lunch was okie had chicken rice? Now eating a big plate of fruits hahaha...wat did u hv? Hope u hv a great lunch too?
Trace,
Hope u feel better now after a gd lunch ^_^
Lili,
Take care ya
Trace.
Dun take too many dragonfruit, heard it's cooling, my colleague said in TCM context it's very cooling so ask me not to take!
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Lunch was okie had chicken rice? Now eating a big plate of fruits hahaha...wat did u hv? Hope u hv a great lunch too?
Trace,
Hope u feel better now after a gd lunch ^_^
Lili,
Take care ya
Trace.
Dun take too many dragonfruit, heard it's cooling, my colleague said in TCM context it's very cooling so ask me not to take!
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cupidangels
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Trace, u are not alone, i feel so sleepy too. Had char siew rice with a plate or veg, had some guavas too. All i want now is to close my eyes.......
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/578191/1095343.html?1212393668
found this thread, got a few mummies' blog to read..in case anyone of u all r bored..hehe like me!
found this thread, got a few mummies' blog to read..in case anyone of u all r bored..hehe like me!
cupidangels
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Hey Mommies,
When u went for ur 20th week scan, did ur doctor told u that your placenta is low?? I don't remember having that when i have my 2 kids but this one, my doc said the placenta is a low....... a bit worried.
When u went for ur 20th week scan, did ur doctor told u that your placenta is low?? I don't remember having that when i have my 2 kids but this one, my doc said the placenta is a low....... a bit worried.
cupidangels
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Went online to search more info on this and found this story,
http://members.aol.com/nofoolkc/karen.htm
Doctor told me not to do too much walking and no intercourse. He will check to see if the placenta had moved up when the pregnancy progress.
http://members.aol.com/nofoolkc/karen.htm
Doctor told me not to do too much walking and no intercourse. He will check to see if the placenta had moved up when the pregnancy progress.
Hi Trace,
During my first pregnacny, I try this malay massage lady by the name of Bibah. Very friendly & I think she is good. Price neg & she give me a longer massage as I'm too fat at no extra cost.
Hi Icylemon,
I thought I'm the only ones that is breathless. Seems like I'm normal.
During my first pregnacny, I try this malay massage lady by the name of Bibah. Very friendly & I think she is good. Price neg & she give me a longer massage as I'm too fat at no extra cost.
Hi Icylemon,
I thought I'm the only ones that is breathless. Seems like I'm normal.
Gioanna,
yes, the detailed scan will also check for the placenta... my gynae told me specifically that my placenta looks normal, not low.. think u must take extra care now.. dont walk too much.. dont carry heavy stuff, etc..
Trace,
if u want, i can give u the contact via pm.. but she will give only 60mins massage for $50 per session.. i wished it was longer though!! however, as i saw my hubby's colls all go back to their slim self... i will try her out lor...
Rachel's Mummy, blur,
i also get breathless easily!!
yes, the detailed scan will also check for the placenta... my gynae told me specifically that my placenta looks normal, not low.. think u must take extra care now.. dont walk too much.. dont carry heavy stuff, etc..
Trace,
if u want, i can give u the contact via pm.. but she will give only 60mins massage for $50 per session.. i wished it was longer though!! however, as i saw my hubby's colls all go back to their slim self... i will try her out lor...
Rachel's Mummy, blur,
i also get breathless easily!!
nickypower
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Trace- Hope u are feeling now and rest more yah!
Gioanna- Ya think now better dun carry any heavy stuffs and take more well needed rest yah..
Seems tat today's topic more on gender's issues!! ;p
Gioanna- Ya think now better dun carry any heavy stuffs and take more well needed rest yah..
Seems tat today's topic more on gender's issues!! ;p
cupidangels
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Yeah will try to rest more. Hubby is doing most of the household chores now and lucky my two kids are very independent so i don't really have to do much except cooking for them.
eternitystar
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<font color="0000ff">Really feel breathless these days easily too, DH said coupled with the lack of exercise and the extra weight I'm carrying definitely get tired easily!
Gioanna,
It's gd that you rest more, am sure the placenta will adjust and move itself up
Great to know that your hubby is helping you with the hsehold chores
Take Care!
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Gioanna,
It's gd that you rest more, am sure the placenta will adjust and move itself up
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Trace,
PM sent!
Rachel's Mummy,
huh... ur 1st pregnancy u didnt feel breathless ahh... me is 1st pregnancy i already feel so leh.. kekeke.. i guess, like the old saying.. every pregnancy is different... what u must do is to take slower steps, walk lesser.. or if u r shopping.. take more breaks!!
PM sent!
Rachel's Mummy,
huh... ur 1st pregnancy u didnt feel breathless ahh... me is 1st pregnancy i already feel so leh.. kekeke.. i guess, like the old saying.. every pregnancy is different... what u must do is to take slower steps, walk lesser.. or if u r shopping.. take more breaks!!
Gioanna,
good that ur hubby helps u... take good care!!
btw mummies, do u find ur baby moving positions alot??? like how sometimes, 1 side is harder.. so, bb is there.. whereas the other side seems flatter??? think my baby is exploring all corners in the womb... kekeke...
good that ur hubby helps u... take good care!!
btw mummies, do u find ur baby moving positions alot??? like how sometimes, 1 side is harder.. so, bb is there.. whereas the other side seems flatter??? think my baby is exploring all corners in the womb... kekeke...
cupidangels
New Member
Thank you everyone for your concern.
Blur,
For massage, do we do it before or after we give birth??
Blur,
For massage, do we do it before or after we give birth??
eternitystar
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<font color="0000ff">Forest,
I experince it too, on some occasions I think I felt bb doing somersault in the womb hahahaha ;p
Gioanna,
Normally we do it after birth, post natal massage
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I experince it too, on some occasions I think I felt bb doing somersault in the womb hahahaha ;p
Gioanna,
Normally we do it after birth, post natal massage
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Trace,
anytime!!
Littlebluey,
hahahaha... feels so amazing right?? kakaka... im just thinking what is he doing... sometimes here, sometimes there... kakkaka..
n that day when i was having detailed scan... baby was sitting upright... my hubby and sis joked that our boy is praying.. with his hands together (buddha style)!!!!!!!!! LOL
anytime!!
Littlebluey,
hahahaha... feels so amazing right?? kakaka... im just thinking what is he doing... sometimes here, sometimes there... kakkaka..
n that day when i was having detailed scan... baby was sitting upright... my hubby and sis joked that our boy is praying.. with his hands together (buddha style)!!!!!!!!! LOL
cupidangels
New Member
Forest,
Yeah i do feel that sometimes too. So cute isn't it?
Yeah i do feel that sometimes too. So cute isn't it?
eternitystar
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<font color="0000ff">Forest,
Yeah, I agree sometimes I oso wonder wat bb is doing inside? Enjoying hahahaha lolx ;p
Wah, yr bb boy so cute, so small alrd so pious le ^_^
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Yeah, I agree sometimes I oso wonder wat bb is doing inside? Enjoying hahahaha lolx ;p
Wah, yr bb boy so cute, so small alrd so pious le ^_^
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