jen, yea, 3.5mths sounds rather early for walker. previously, we used the haenim playyard, Emms will stay inside as her play area and she will hold the sides of the playyard and stand up. we also used the walker but when she was much older, 9mths or so, but we only used it for feeding, as there was danger of her approaching low electric sockets and stuff if unsupervised. Parents in law/ parents can be overenthusiatic, maybe show your hubby the article Jus Us posted? I think I heard somewhere that the crawling stage is quite impt, using the walker sometimes encourages the bb to walk too soon, hence skipping the crawling stage.
i am jus trying out the handsfree, not v handsfree leh. when i let go, the suction drops. tightening the strap no use, as the bottom of the shield will open & milk will drip out. what i need is sumthing to pull the wire part back. anyone can advice??? heh, i can "make" it handsfree by leaning the bottles against the side of the table. ha!