Sorry mummies,
just wan to rant the things out of my heart.
I know my birthday celebration is over for almost one week, but there r things i'm so unhappy with my mil.
On the 1st night, my hubby wanted to invite few friends over to have a mini gathering, so he planning for a buffet, so when my mil heard it, she say she want to join in, cos sat got a lot of relatives, scard if she asked all of them on sat, she can't entertain all. so be it, since we tot she might not have too ,uch friends, end up she got 20 ppl coming, so to save trouble, we order the food to be BBQ. Later when her friend started to come in, she happend to find out my ger will clap her hand when u asked her to. so when her friends start to come in one by one, she will asked to clap her. In the 1st place, she will still clap her hand, but after a few, she didn't even to move her hands, I was thinking to myself, y kept asking her to clap hands, just because u want to show off how, lucky she is tired and don want to entertain her any more. so the rest of the night, she never clap again. end up, my hb never had a chance to talk to his frined, cos he was busy BBQ for my mil's friend, told HB, in this case, should have order buffet. at least he won't be so tired plus he can entertain his friends, end up so paiseh, his frined helped out in the BBQ.
Then 2nd night, actual celebration, before we blown the candale, she asked to take photo together, so we took turn to take photo. end up, when blowing the candle, it was her beside us, not my HB, k, maybe it my fault, never asked hb to step in, end up photo taken is her, eleanor and me, no hb.
then came to cut the cake to be given out, so we cut the small cake beside the care bear, already never cut very big, she still asked to cut smaller, cos she tot the care bear cannot be eaten, faint lo, i spent $200 plus on small cake. it was then my sis cut the care bear, then she know it can be eaten, then she start saying, like that can give bigger pcs, ya, u already give to most of them, still got ppl want to eat meh. my sis already told her there is still a lot, no need to cut so small pcs, don know is she never heard us or what, end up, i had a lot of cake left behind.
Sorry, mummies for my long long complaint, feel so much better. even my hb is a bit pissed off with her mum.