hey Flos,
saw your discussion on handphone for maid. I don't allow my maid to have handphone, and this was communicated to her when I did the phone interview with her, prior to hiring her. She agreed and she really didn't bring any handphone. I am touched because she took her promise to me seriously and this shows to me she can be quite trustworthy. She told me when she was in Manila, she DHL her personal items including her handphone back to her hometown before flying to SG.
So to show my appreciation for her, I pay for her calls back home. I buy those calling card (face value $10 but can get at $8-$8.50) where she uses my house phone to make the call. I told her I will buy her 1 card to be used over 2 months. Each card is about 50mins. If she wants to talk more than that, she has to pay for additional cards. But so far she has only called back once and she used up 40mins. Actually I don't seriously intend to make her pay la. Cos my maid is really obedient so far.. and coming Christmas, I will reward her by giving her extra phone card so she can chat longer with her family.
I personally don't agree to the use of a handphone. But of course sometimes it's hard to not allow them, as they are also human. But then, I have also heard of many maids who do not want to call home.. cos usually when they call home, the family keep asking them for money. I think this is something u really must work out with your maid. Then you can gauge her need for handphone usage etc.