(2008/01) Jan 2008 MTBs
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Morning, mummies.
When comes to #3, many of us will hesitate. Same for me too. For me, I rushed to have #1 and #2 coz already not young (34 this year). Now I feel that I am just 100% stretched for 2 kids liao... But hubby kept hubbing on #3, #4... I don't know if I will "xin run" and have #3. I always like the thot of 3 kids too coz hubby and myself have 2 other siblings too. Another pt is that if want, I will go for Dragon (my yr). Although very competitive but it is one of my wishes to have a Dragon baby... Only 2 things to prevent #3 are money and age factor.
Pixie,
Hope you feel better? Don't take "Bao Ji Wan", ok? Coz cancerous ingredients inside.
When comes to #3, many of us will hesitate. Same for me too. For me, I rushed to have #1 and #2 coz already not young (34 this year). Now I feel that I am just 100% stretched for 2 kids liao... But hubby kept hubbing on #3, #4... I don't know if I will "xin run" and have #3. I always like the thot of 3 kids too coz hubby and myself have 2 other siblings too. Another pt is that if want, I will go for Dragon (my yr). Although very competitive but it is one of my wishes to have a Dragon baby... Only 2 things to prevent #3 are money and age factor.
Pixie,
Hope you feel better? Don't take "Bao Ji Wan", ok? Coz cancerous ingredients inside.
angelwind
Active Member
krystle
oh really? i dont take that one when i lao sai i just let it run its course
aqua
actually rabbit baby may can start TTC liao but just to be sure, jun oso can
now i trying to persuade my hb to TTC for rabbit baby. coz if not, i wont want to have a baby @ later time (old liao). dont expect me to open my legs just coz now then you want a baby lor......
oh really? i dont take that one when i lao sai i just let it run its course
aqua
actually rabbit baby may can start TTC liao but just to be sure, jun oso can
now i trying to persuade my hb to TTC for rabbit baby. coz if not, i wont want to have a baby @ later time (old liao). dont expect me to open my legs just coz now then you want a baby lor......
Pixie,
I used to take that coz effective for me. Now cannot take liao.
Ya loh, for guys, they say is very easy. For us, every pregnancy is a test/risk and our body has to go through so many changes etc... Not easy when comes to later age. So my mum kept telling me enough liao, not give in for #3.
I used to take that coz effective for me. Now cannot take liao.
Ya loh, for guys, they say is very easy. For us, every pregnancy is a test/risk and our body has to go through so many changes etc... Not easy when comes to later age. So my mum kept telling me enough liao, not give in for #3.
babyshannon
Active Member
wow..all of u are talking about having another baby.
I confirm closing shop already. Dont think I have energy for another one.
Anyone know the reason why gynae refuses to do ligation for us? I tried to ask my gynae but she says must wait until 35 yrs old then can do.
I confirm closing shop already. Dont think I have energy for another one.
Anyone know the reason why gynae refuses to do ligation for us? I tried to ask my gynae but she says must wait until 35 yrs old then can do.
babyshannon
Active Member
pixie,
just realised this:
my gal - pig
my boy - cow
me - goat
hb - rabbit
We are all farm animals..haha
just realised this:
my gal - pig
my boy - cow
me - goat
hb - rabbit
We are all farm animals..haha
aqua,
Wah, you very good in this ah. Talk like a shi fu leh. What's good for me, a tiger?
shannonbaby,
Think most gynaes waited a bit longer because after ligation is no u-turn? They want to let the parents to have more time to think carefully. Think if you insist, she cannot say no?
krsytle,
Same for me. The only thing prevent me to have #3 and #4 is my age. Already 36 this year lah, soooooo old already. I have no problem with the pregnancy, labour, confinement, etc, in fact, I enjoyed both my pregnancies and labours, and confinement. But I just don't know if I can handle another one without helper. We die die won't have live-in helper one. So don't know. Actually nothing prevents me. Hubby said leave it to me to decide (cos I change my mind too often until he also sian liao). walk 1 step, see 1 step bah. If we really plan for #3, hubby wants a dragon baby If my girl will be as guai as HR, then most likely yes lor.
Wah, you very good in this ah. Talk like a shi fu leh. What's good for me, a tiger?
shannonbaby,
Think most gynaes waited a bit longer because after ligation is no u-turn? They want to let the parents to have more time to think carefully. Think if you insist, she cannot say no?
krsytle,
Same for me. The only thing prevent me to have #3 and #4 is my age. Already 36 this year lah, soooooo old already. I have no problem with the pregnancy, labour, confinement, etc, in fact, I enjoyed both my pregnancies and labours, and confinement. But I just don't know if I can handle another one without helper. We die die won't have live-in helper one. So don't know. Actually nothing prevents me. Hubby said leave it to me to decide (cos I change my mind too often until he also sian liao). walk 1 step, see 1 step bah. If we really plan for #3, hubby wants a dragon baby
If my girl will be as guai as HR, then most likely yes lor.hello mummies,
seems like there's great fun at the gathering! hee
my girl was torturing us last night, she was so energetic and refuse to sleep until 12 mn, she was singing and tossing and climbing all over the bed. She is ever so energetic, i realise that whenever she takes her afternoon nap, be it only for an hour, she will not be able to sleep early at night. If she skip her afternoon nap, she will doze off early around 8-9pm. i wonder if she really don't need the afternoon nap. headache...
talking about the animals,
my hubby-tiger, me-horse, girl -pig, doesn't match at all...lol
seems like there's great fun at the gathering! hee
my girl was torturing us last night, she was so energetic and refuse to sleep until 12 mn, she was singing and tossing and climbing all over the bed. She is ever so energetic, i realise that whenever she takes her afternoon nap, be it only for an hour, she will not be able to sleep early at night. If she skip her afternoon nap, she will doze off early around 8-9pm. i wonder if she really don't need the afternoon nap. headache...
talking about the animals,
my hubby-tiger, me-horse, girl -pig, doesn't match at all...lol
tongtong8
Active Member
Kam, why you die-die don’t want a live-in helper? Scared no privacy?
Hey I also have lots of bills to pay leh… but hor 2 more years later you will have higher pay liao, are you still willing to let go of ur job?
Actually I’m also very fickled minded. At one time I want #2, at another time don’t want. Maybe I will only have #2 by way of “accident”. LOL
Luvv, maybe it’s time for ur gal to skip her afternoon nap.
Hey I also have lots of bills to pay leh… but hor 2 more years later you will have higher pay liao, are you still willing to let go of ur job?
Actually I’m also very fickled minded. At one time I want #2, at another time don’t want. Maybe I will only have #2 by way of “accident”. LOL
Luvv, maybe it’s time for ur gal to skip her afternoon nap.
tongtong8
Active Member
Aqua, what does the secret friend mean?
Luvv, yea, there was once mine din nap whole day, then he dozing off while eating noodle on his own. After he finished the whole bowl, he just KO on the dining chair. That was 7.30pm. But I’m not sure whether it’s good to not have them nap?
Luvv, yea, there was once mine din nap whole day, then he dozing off while eating noodle on his own. After he finished the whole bowl, he just KO on the dining chair. That was 7.30pm. But I’m not sure whether it’s good to not have them nap?
tongtong,allies and secret friend around u will ensure u hav a smooth sailing time, be it at wrk,home, biz, gd or tough times.
suppose to enhance ur overall luck, smooth sail in ur life .
luvv, i also know tiger n horse are v compatible, pig n tiger are also quite gd...
mebe pig n horse- more neutral?
sorry, nt an expert here, so cant comment ;p
suppose to enhance ur overall luck, smooth sail in ur life .
luvv, i also know tiger n horse are v compatible, pig n tiger are also quite gd...
mebe pig n horse- more neutral?
sorry, nt an expert here, so cant comment ;p
angelwind
Active Member
yest hor tok to my hb about N1
he very firm that x can only start school 3yr old onwards, not 30months onwards if i decide to enroll him in the PCF.
i explained that x speech development is slow hence can consider putting him earlier at 30mths to see if there are any improvements in his speech. he still say no leh
nevermind, today i very positive. hb say no to school, but never say no to weekend classes mah!!
so, perhaps i should start looking for one to let x have some fun liao....
he very firm that x can only start school 3yr old onwards, not 30months onwards if i decide to enroll him in the PCF.
i explained that x speech development is slow hence can consider putting him earlier at 30mths to see if there are any improvements in his speech. he still say no leh
nevermind, today i very positive. hb say no to school, but never say no to weekend classes mah!!
so, perhaps i should start looking for one to let x have some fun liao....
babyshannon
Active Member
grumpus,
i was told that if u got 3 kids, u can do the ligation but if u got 2 kids, must wait until 35 yrs old.
Alot of my friends also want to do, but gynae also say cannot.
Kam,
How come u only start working for 3 years plus?
but then again, I have been working for almost 10 years, still not much savings too.
i was told that if u got 3 kids, u can do the ligation but if u got 2 kids, must wait until 35 yrs old.
Alot of my friends also want to do, but gynae also say cannot.
Kam,
How come u only start working for 3 years plus?
but then again, I have been working for almost 10 years, still not much savings too.
babyshannon
Active Member
grumpus,
must queue for kindergarten?
I intend to enrol my gal in ascension kindergarten for pre-nursery. Dunno whether must i go early to queue or not.
Anyone looking at Ascension kindergarten also?
must queue for kindergarten?
I intend to enrol my gal in ascension kindergarten for pre-nursery. Dunno whether must i go early to queue or not.
Anyone looking at Ascension kindergarten also?
grumpus
Active Member
shannonbaby,
from what i understand, kindy registration starts in early mar. first come first serve basis, so if the kindy is very popular all the places will be filled very fast.
best u call the kindy and find out what's the current status. if need be got to hurry up go down and register liao...
from what i understand, kindy registration starts in early mar. first come first serve basis, so if the kindy is very popular all the places will be filled very fast.
best u call the kindy and find out what's the current status. if need be got to hurry up go down and register liao...
babyshannon
Active Member
grumpus,
ascension kindergarten registration start in april. My gal is under phrase 3 (sibling not studying in that sch n parents never study there before). Only one day (16 april). Still thinking whether must i go down early to queue or not. Cos I only want AM session.
I saw some of the mummies here say they go down at 8am for other kindergartens and no slot liaos.
Didnt know kindergarten registration also so stressful.
ascension kindergarten registration start in april. My gal is under phrase 3 (sibling not studying in that sch n parents never study there before). Only one day (16 april). Still thinking whether must i go down early to queue or not. Cos I only want AM session.
I saw some of the mummies here say they go down at 8am for other kindergartens and no slot liaos.
Didnt know kindergarten registration also so stressful.
Pixie,
What reason your hubby cited for not letting X to start school until 3 yrs? For my hubby, he said "bu she de" loh. Aiyo, he thot I "she de" meh? But I still respect his decision lah. YOu are right! He never say weekend classes cannot. So start it low key with weekend classes. That was what I thot and did for Issyen.
Kam,
You really started working very late leh? Is it because of studies? Did both of you study until master/PHD? But if so, both of you should be earning high incomes so savings will come very quickly lah. Me working for 10 years already and my hubby worst. Started working since ORD (20) so like 14 yrs. But still not much of savings coz we are spending $$ on yearly trips which I cannot give up at this moment.
What reason your hubby cited for not letting X to start school until 3 yrs? For my hubby, he said "bu she de" loh. Aiyo, he thot I "she de" meh? But I still respect his decision lah. YOu are right! He never say weekend classes cannot. So start it low key with weekend classes. That was what I thot and did for Issyen.
Kam,
You really started working very late leh? Is it because of studies? Did both of you study until master/PHD? But if so, both of you should be earning high incomes so savings will come very quickly lah. Me working for 10 years already and my hubby worst. Started working since ORD (20) so like 14 yrs. But still not much of savings coz we are spending $$ on yearly trips which I cannot give up at this moment.
