steph,
yes, ever since #2 was born, we r "separated".
we have the same sleeping arrangement as u. but im not complaining hehe
i was thinking of only letting the boys sleep together when they are old enough, which i duno when.

coz now if they sleep in same room, it would be even harder for them to fall asleep, they just wana play lar.
last night, #1 insists that i sleep with him, so 4 of us squeezed on the king size bed. i carried #2 back to our room after #1 fell asleep, bad arrangment lar, i didnt sleep well.
so for the time being, which ever method dat can make them sleep early, im all for it.
sorry cant help u there. some people might feel its unhealthy to sleep in separate rooms. but bo bian lar unless we got somebody else to co sleep with our kids.