Petrina,
I dun follow Gina Ford's routine to the T. My view is that each baby will have their own routines, although more or less around the natural sleep rythm (the 7pm to 7am sleep) and the lunchtime sleep.
My gal also cannot stay awake after 7am. She will sleep until 945am - 10am, then wake up. So I'll let her play by herself. I'll prepare EBM for her at 1030am (in case she suddenly remembers that she's hungry, milk is ready). She doesn't sleep at 12 noon everyday. Sometimes 1pm then nap. But at 2pm, I'll unswaddle her or pick her up to change diaper. She'll wake up on her own. Feed her, then she'll play again. Some days, she'll nap again after her 2pm feed. I just let her be lah.
Even her 7pm sleep time...hello, it's MY dinner time...hahaha...But so far, she'll get cranky at that time (sleepy mah). And she'll sleep...but only for a while. Then she'll wake up and want to be carried. She'll finally K.O. at around 10pm - 11pm. All the way till 6am (that's when I have to leave home to go work) again lorh.
So, it does seem like my gal sleeps a lot too...haha. but as long as she's a happy, thriving baby, I'm happy too lah. I'm more concern that she sticks to the feeding routine, than the sleep routine.
Re educational dvds,
I can do a spree for BB Signing Times (our private one lah) if any of you mummies are interested, coz I know someone who is a retailer. Let me find out more about the price we can get, and I'll post it in our SMH Dec07 Groups, yah?