castusnah,
me now 36 weeks, still taking care of my 13kg boy myself, bring him to CC, bath him, carry him up and down etc cos my that 2 months maid really cannot make it, really tough luck on maids, she is unhygiene ( my boy, nephew, hubby all sick and stomachache, lau sia), cut corners, eat snake, choosy on food (only bread and rice), the rest dun eat, never follow instructions on finishing housework and dun shampoo hair b4 sleep, dun sleep on mattress or sleep on mattress w/o bedsheet cos lazy to wash but sleep on her blanket and use bedsheet as blanket (thought no need to wash blanket and bedsheet) 2 mths never wash own blanket, cannot cook, cannot take care children, do housework like never do. Messy up and dirty my new house etc....
my parents also cannot stand her, though understand english but always do opposite of what we ask her to, only my mum bothers to shout at her now, we cannot be bother with her anymore, my mum saw her standing in the living room doing nothing and hanns pooed, so asked her to help me, i so fedup, scolded my mum to ask her to ask the maid to get lost cos she come into the room, blocked my way and just stand there and see only, worse. Taught everyday, hundreds of times for the same housework ( simple housework like wash milk bottles, clean windows) for 2 months but still the same, therefore give up on teaching liao, nothing to teach liao, nothing to scold and say anymore, agent also give up. Now just waiting and looking for new maid, i dun bother about her so that i will not get stress up. hanns schedule to eat dinner at 6 pm everyday, till now, every now and then can still come and ask me at 4:30 pm or 5 pm if hanns needs to eat dinner now??? sigh.... all these schedule all written down for her too leh. Mixed up hanns wardrobe and my 3.5 yrs old nephew wardrobe all the time, i packed hanns wardrobe nicely, pants one side, t-shirts one side etc... and she messed up all, anyhow put, anyhow dumped it in..sigh....
all my bb girl items not wash yet, my sister asked me how, bb going to come out soon, i told her, I will dump it into the washing machine to wash lor, no choice, dare not ask the maid to touch, i dunno what she will do with it or use the toilet brush to brush, then i fainted again. ( dun ask me why i dun tell her which brush to brush har cos we did that, but then after that found out that she is doing otherwise, too many occassion like this so give up)eat her own lunch also dunno how to put back the dinning chair and clean up her own rice drops and stain on the table, tell her to clean, just use dry cloth clean and put back, never rinse at all, all my cleaning cloths so black and dirty liao
too many horrid story to tell you lah, everyday one leh
you wanna ask me why dun send the maid back har? cos like my mum said, at least still got someone to mop the floor everyday and carry her pail of water for her to water the plant mah.
just interviewed a transfer maid yesterday, worked 3 yrs for 1st employer, went back and then back 7 mths for 2nd employer, kenna caught by MOM cos employer bring her to office shop to do cleaning, doing Hep B test now, hopefully if ok, can take her and crossing my finger, dare not hope for more too liao.
my hanns still lau sia, midnight got to wake up and change diapers, asshole all red liao :-( hubby also bad stomachache this week, ( last week, serious backache from carrying and playing with hanns too much), really worry that if now bb comes out, how???
the most he can take leave to send hanns to cc is 1 week, then i have to take over and send him liao.
but lucky you, now the weather is slightly cooler liao.
